mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 She told me that she had sex with another guyI'm not sure how that comes up in conversation, but the next time it does, ask Wow, that sounds really nice! Do you think it's possible that he tasted me? Did you taste me on him after he did it to you? Isn't that cool? Now both of you have a little of me floating around inside you.Of course, the better move would be to avoid any future conversations. 2
Chi townD Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 So it is week 5 or something since I last contacted my ex, before that I did already 4 weeks and then she broke NC. She told me that she had sex with another guy and it hit me really hard, did not see that coming. I told her to never contact me again and that this is for the best, she said she thought we will get back together in the future but I doubt that she means it. The last few weeks I am feeling so lonely and lost, I'm scared to aprouch girls and where I used to think I was good looking I now think I'm kind of ugly, I lost confidence and I don't know how to regain it. I used to be able to get a lot of girls, but I don't even dare to walk up to one when I'm going out. I don't know what to do, I know I can't talk to her and I don't even want to.. But at the same time I wonder if she thinks about me.. We dated for a year and 8 months and she broke up out of the blue, saying that she had fallen out of love with me.. I know we can't be together anymore since I don't trust her at all anymore, but I feel so lonely lately.. I'm really lost Okay, let me explain what's going on with this situation. You're racking your brain wonder why your Ex was telling you that she slept with someone else. Even after you didn't ask about her love life. Think about it dude. She was the one asking about YOUR love life first. You didn't even bring it up. The thing is, she felt guilty. So, she was hoping beyond hope that you would have admitted to being with another girl so she wouldn't have to feel so guilty about what she did. I mean, what girl that invested her time and love into a relationship wants to know if the guy she was in love with is screwing someone else? NONE OF THEM WOULD!!! Once she found out that you haven't then she felt that she had to come clean with you. But, did you notice that she downplayed the event? Stating that it wasn't enjoyable and you were better? Uh huh....yeah. Dude, she felt guilty and she wanted to unload on you which was really selfish. Time to build yourself back up! You stated that you've been going to the gym. Good! Keep going and work off all those stressors and frustrations you're having. Eat right and get plenty of sleep and the next thing you know, you'll have a rock hard and ripped bod that girls are definitely going to notice. Then go shopping, get a whole new wardrobe. If you're a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Change to designer jeans, button down shirt, vest, belt with leather shoes. Be styling 24/7. You want people saying, "Damn dude! Lookin sharp!" Get new hobbies. Join a running club, or cycling club, or dive lessons or cooking classes. SOMETHING TO KEEP YOU BUSY AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE! Then travel, take a trip somewhere. Have fun and see something new! 1
me85 Posted September 19, 2014 Posted September 19, 2014 Oh she's cold blooded. Yes, try to refrain from initiating contact with her. People like her need to blocked from every which way under the sun, son!
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