blynnae05 Posted July 27, 2014 Posted July 27, 2014 My ex finally texted me back yesterday. I asked him if he was ok because I was getting pretty worried. He texted me and told me he's still alive and that every time he wanted to text me, I would go ballistic (my emotions took over cause of our break up). Since I didn't go ballistic yesterday, he texted back. But I texted him today and I get no reply. Has anyone somehow got their ex to initiate contact through low contact? Or advice would be good. This is making me insane that he's not texting me hardly at all. :/ Thank you in advance!
stillafool Posted July 27, 2014 Posted July 27, 2014 If he is your EX why would he text you? You two are broken up. He doesn't text you because he wants you to move on with your life as he is trying to move on with his. Leave him alone. 1
guest569 Posted July 28, 2014 Posted July 28, 2014 You don't want him to text you, he is your ex and it will just make things worse...right?
BridgetGrey Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 Yes I have but I went no contact for a month and I have family issues , like my mom got cancer . I ignored my ex but in our case there was a mutual understanding toward what broke us up long distance and different life stages and no future in sight basically. My advise to you and I know it's hard and painful but don't contact your ex let him go. If you let him go then you will heal that's the point it's about him anymore.
Author blynnae05 Posted August 22, 2014 Author Posted August 22, 2014 My ex and i broke up on good terms and decided to put things on hold until he came home for good. I asked if we could still talk and he said "of course:)". But he just stopped talking to me altogether and usually ignored my texts. He would text every couple weeks until the other night when his text said exactly this.."i asked to be left alone for A little while and every time you say you let me be, it lasts 3 days at most, until you blow up my phone and it quickly turns into "why do you hate me"..i cant deal with all that right now. He said once that when hes stressed enough, he shuts everyone out. And he lost his dad 2 weeks ago so hes going through alot but he never asked to leave him alone before so i dont know why he said that he asked cause he didnt but anyway hes always on Facebook chat and he has been seeing his friends and talking to them so I don't get it. I try so hard to be in his life and be there for him cause he's going through a lot but he easily talks to and sees other people. Why is it me he wants to avoid right now? How long is a little while?? Please help!?? Thanks in advance
Mary Oak Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 He needs distance/space from you because you are making him feel pressure. Even though you aren't specifically doing anything, the pressure is implied just because you get it touch with him. He doesn't want to have the obligation of replying back and if he doesn't he doesn't want to have to hear the repurcussions of you asking why he is mad at you. You need to just let it go. Even if he didn't ask for space the first time, he is obviously asking for it now. And no, three days is not space.
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