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So you don't think I should say thank you? I don't think there was another guy, but I could be wrong. She said she would tell me everything after my exams but then she started treating me quite badly. Said she loves me and can't see herself with anyone else

 

Oh I'm 23, she's 20 and we had been going out for 15 months

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I agree with Pete then. Start living your life as if she isn't coming back. Because, chances are, she's not. And it's not fair to you to put YOUR life on hold so she can figure sh*t out. If she's on the fence about you, then move on. Personally, I would take that as an insult. Either she's with you or not! No need to string you along.

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How you doing? Because I'm doing completely rubbish at this. I've sent a few texts broke NC. Now I'm just being completely and utterly ignored. Nothing I say is being answered though I can see he's read it.

Preparing myself as I have a feeling he's completely done now (if he wasn't before) to gearing up to get the rest of his things this weekend.

I feel awful. Not stopped crying. Went out yesterday felt so sick I cried on the bus ride home.

 

Sucks to be me

 

I'm so sorry! I completely missed this message! I hope things have picked up for you since then, it must be really hard for you. How are things now?

 

I finished my exams and had a talk with her today, she had already made her choice a few weeks ago and we have now broke up. Some rubbish reasons thrown about, but basically she wants to be single and not argue any more.

 

I ended the conversation on good terms and I deleted her and everyone to do with her from all social media stuff. I also sent a message to her housemates and sister thanking them for being so nice, wishing them luck with everything and letting them know I will be removing them and not to take it personally. They were all very nice about it and some said they hoped to see me again.

 

For me, there is no going back now. I deserve a hell of a lot better and it took me a long time to realise this. I'm going strict NC indefinitely from now, I'm done trying to be a part of her life. Back in the gym, have a holiday in 3 days and then time to catch up with friends. Hopefully it will get easier

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