Lansing Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 So, I was recently dating this girl and in the back of my mind I struggled with whether or not she was actually interested in me as a person, or, just wanted someone to do fun things with, get physical with, etc. Maybe part of me just couldn't let that idea go and that caused distance between us. In the early stages she was pretty "giddy" and she is younger than me so I guess I felt like she just liked seeing someone again and questioned how she could like "me" so much without really have gotten to know me. Anyone else have this type of experience before. I don't know if it is an issue with my own self-confidence or if I am just being overly cautious or what. I guess it came up in my head too because there are situations where I felt she was just using me for a physical "release" so to speak and I could have been any guy. Might be related to her being pretty blunt about what she wanted in that department.
Gaeta Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 All the time. If a man is all over me too fast, showering me with compliments, telling me I am so great when he's known me for 1 week, I don't believe him. He cannot appreciate me when he doesn't know who I am. He is infatuated with my image, nothing more and the idea of having a woman.
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