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I'm the sleeze, but she lied and cheated? [update]


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I know exactly what you mean. It always hurts more when you're putting in more effort than they have and you're still perceived ad the bad guy.

 

It's her loss. She's a hypocrite.

 

I hope that's true.

 

I know she'll realize she made a huge mistake... the matter is when and why should I care anymore? It hurts now. And when I'm done hurting, she'll want more...

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It's not about what she wants, it's about what you want.

Stand up for yourself. If she ever tries to contact you tell her to go do yoga or something to keep her occupied instead of bothering you.

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I hope that's true.

 

I know she'll realize she made a huge mistake... the matter is when and why should I care anymore? It hurts now. And when I'm done hurting, she'll want more...

 

She'll realize she loss out on someone she could use. You're projecting this feeling of love loss -- that won't be the case. A woman that uses and abuses that cannot attach to you in a healthy manner won't feel "loss" the way you do.

 

Yes, she'll want more in that she'll look to you again to be the crutch she needs to enable her dysfunction.

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now what?

 

:(

 

Strict NC and never look back.

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