Gf cheated on me but regrets it and says will end up hurting herself if I left her.

[dragon_fly_7]

Block her immediately. The fact that she send you over 52 text messages makes me think this is an unstabled person that's already coming off kind of psycho. Interesting how cheaters are generally selfish and they don't respect your wishes to heal from it at all; they basically want you to forget it ever happen and treat it as if nothing could have happen and simply get over it, take them back and magically the day is back to normal back. LOL

Edited August 25, 2014 by dragon_fly_7

[Curt]

they basically want you to forget it ever happen and treat it as if nothing could have happen and simply get over it, take them back and magically the day is back to normal back. LOL

 

Well put. It's the ole "It didn't mean anything ...." LOL!!

 

I'd be all .... Beg your pardon chicka but it sure meant something to me! LOL!!

 

D-u-m-p H-e-r N-o-w"

 

Curt

[No Limit]

Why do partners cheat ?

All i ever did was love her, isn't that enough ?

 

Because they're stupid or selfish or both.

 

And no, love isn't enough in a relationship. This is why long distance relationships are so challenging.

[TheGuard13]

If she says anything remotely resembling "I'm going to hurt/kill myself" again, call 9-1-1 and give them her address and information. Spending half a week in a mental hospital with people with REAL problems will likely teach her not to do this again to another guy.

[preraph]

I know you're hurt and confused and all this is too much to deal with all at once and going to take time. But just be glad you found out her crazy side before it went any further. Her cheating is about her, not you. A right person would break up first. At the end of this you will realize you dodged a bullet. What if she'd gotten pregnant and everything? What a mess that would have been.

[Frostfyr]

I know you're hurt and confused and all this is too much to deal with all at once and going to take time. But just be glad you found out her crazy side before it went any further. Her cheating is about her, not you. A right person would break up first. At the end of this you will realize you dodged a bullet. What if she'd gotten pregnant and everything? What a mess that would have been.

Thank you soo much Preraph for staying with me in this period.

[todreaminblue]

its manipulation what she is doing to you it isn't fair....notify her family notify mental health of her threats to do self harm...... and do what is right for you to do.....you cant stay with someone because they manipulate you into staying.....deb

[Frostfyr]

I'll just go with the flow. Diverting my mind would be ideal i guess. But i cannot overcome this quickly. Cuz i cannot forget 7yrs of feelings and memories.

This overcoming period is gonna be difficult, i guess. As she is my neighbour, i'll b seeing her every now and then. It'll be so difficult for me to ignore her completely.

But what u said was true, i thank God that He let me found the truth by myself. She never would've told me the complete truth.

Edited August 26, 2014 by Frostfyr
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