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Reoccuring feelings of guilt, help me please.


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So its been a while since ive posted, which for me is a good thing because it took me so long to get over my ex girlfriend after she broke up with....however...i posted a few months ago about how i sort of hooked up with one of my best friends girlfriend in a drunken stupor...it was more just sleepin next to her in bed and she ended up getting her hands down my pants...but pretty much nothin more than that.....but anyhow....they were together 3 years, and stayed together after that happend even though he eventually found out.....Recently they broke up for other reasons, and she apparently is seeing another guy now....and she even told my buddy she had sex with him once. All of the sudden a lot of my old feelings worrying about my ex and what she was doin came flying back along with an overwhelming feeling of guilt. I sincerely feel for him and know exactly what hes going through as I was there just last summer. What do I do, to get rid of these feelings of guilt, and why does HIS exgirlfriend being with another guy affect me?...I feel so bad for him, its almost as if my own insecurities are being played out all over again...and for those who remember my posts, you know how long and hard it was for me to finally get over with...what do i do????

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Well, it's apparent that she's the player here. I wouldn't worry about it. You were just there in the wrong place at the wrong time. You just need to forget about it, grab your buddy and you two take turns being each other's wing man and find some new women.............

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