topical818 Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Me and my lady have been having problems recently. I texted her best friend and said "Hey, it's ----. ---- has been treating me like crap this last couple weeks. Her mom even thought I was a schizo until she heard a conversation the two of us were having and told her to not treat me like that. Is ---- being honest to me or should I move on. If u don't wanna text back about this, no problem" Then she fwd the text to her and my lady got mad at me Is this right or did I do something wrong, here?
mammasita Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Why are you involving her friend? Do you think her female friend is going to pick you over her? I'm sure your intentions were good, but you did make a mistake. This is between you and your girl. If she's treating you like crap, grow a pair and walk away. 1
bubbaganoosh Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 The question is, why do you want to be with someone that treats you bad?. That's nothing but a torture.
acrosstheuniverse Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Yes, it was wrong to try and involve her friends in the relationship between you two. The first thing I'd do in that situation is forward it to my friend, because I'd feel I was betraying her otherwise, unless I was equal friends with both people in the relationship. If I didn't do that (depends on the severity of what was said) I'd text back 'this is between you guys and not me, please don't confide in me about your relationship because I would feel dishonest keeping it between you and I'. If you don't think she's treating you properly then just walk away, don't go to her friends looking to hear 'she loves you but treats you like ****' because would that be enough anyway? 1
Mrin Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Yes you made a mistake. The friend did the right thing. And your lady is right to be pissed about it. Not exactly sure what you were thinking would happen. If it had been a mutual or shared friend maybe I could see it but one of her friends. Oy vey
d0nnivain Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Once you are out of middle school, you don't drag other people into the middle of your romantic relationships. If you can fix whatever problems you are having, do so. Otherwise, let this one go.
mightycpa Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Mistakes: 1) You texted her best friend. 2) You haven't given ---- the heave-ho yet 3) You think the mom is on your side Next time: 1) Text your best friend, not hers 2) Tell your lady to treat you well or hit the road 3) Know that moms are always on their daughter's side in the long run, even if she supports you in the short term 1
Zeurich Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Is this right or did I do something wrong, here? yes you did pretty naughty thing. How come you got the guts to text her friend, why did not you text it to your girl friend directly?
Recommended Posts