It'sallnewtome Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Ok so I have liked this guy for awhile but it was just friends. He went away for 2 months and can back yesterday. He called me and asked me to have dinner with him. So I did. We have known each other for about5 months and have hung out a lot. Last night he told me that he has feelings for me and has since before he left. Swoon.. So we met up again today and had lunch. He told me that he wants to start something with me but he wants us to only date each other.. I am kind of in shock... This guy is so special to me but I never wanted to tell him in case he didn't feel the same and I ruined the friendship. So then he says to me he has to tell me something that may change how I feel and he wants me to know before we go any further. He was really upset to tell me .. And I was so worried When he told me I was kind of surprised.. It didn't really change a thing but he was so worried.. I am wondering if I should think about it more.. So he has 2 kids to his ex wife but when they were separated he had a one night stand and she got pregnant. She didn't tell him till the child was 1. He pays child support but the woman isn't too keen on him having contact. She has 4 kids to different men.. His child is 4 .. The two with the ex wife are 8 and 6. So tell me what would your reaction be?
Zippy2000 Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 It would be shock and horror, and tell him next time to wear a rubbber or he`s paying EXTRA child support!
HappyLove Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 I'd have to pass that's too many kids. It's just too messy.
preraph Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 Too messy -- and if he wanted access to the kids, he knows where the courthouse is. So he's irresponsible as well. But we already knew that because he was banging his ex without birthcontrol, right? 1
TigerLilly78 Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 Too messy -- and if he wanted access to the kids, he knows where the courthouse is. So he's irresponsible as well. But we already knew that because he was banging his ex without birthcontrol, right? Not always ive herd of some crazy women popping holes in the rubbers to get the guy trapped ether into a relationship or child payments it happens..
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