ttjames Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 I got this email from my ex yesteryday after I sent her a simple 2 liner saying that she owed me money for the phone bill. Background Details: We were together for 3 years. Broke up jan 10th. Mutual decision, I was leaving for college and she's leaving for Europe in April. Hey, [blah some stuff] How are you? How is school and friends? Are you getting to know ppl better now? Do you have a new girlfriend? I'm sure there are plenty of cute girls there... [some more about her family] I miss you a lot. I know you may not think so, but I really do. I think about you all of the time. I guess I don't want to miss you so much because I know it will hurt more and I just feel like I need to move on. I miss touching you and smelling you. So much of this stuff here is yours and it just reminds me of you. I miss you and I wish we would write more. I feel distant and I know we are. I don't know what your life is like now and I don't know anyone that you hang out with. So I can't relate to that, but I hope you are still ttjames and that I can relate to him. I hope you miss me too. I just really care for you, but I think not talking on the phone is better, for now anyways. I can't wait to see you again. I think it will be really nice. I would just like to hug you. It's really weird after having been with someone for so long and then not being with them. It sometimes feels like it was all a dream. Life goes by so fast so much of it seems like a dream. I feel sad now. ****! I didn't mean to do that to myself. Well, I have to do some homework. I am done writing for today. I just hope that you are happy and doing well. I know that knowing about you being with other people is really difficult, but even though it hurts me, I just want to you to be happy. I don't want you to hurt or feel sad. I hope you are starting to fit in and have a nice time. I just want you to know how much I love you and care for you. Please never forget it!! Lots of love, [girlfriend] P.S. XXXOOOXXXXOOOO ----------------------------------------- I don't get it. It's like she wants to move on and be over me, but then she says that she can't wait to see me and hug me. ?? ? I just don't understand the motive behind it. Sure it's sweet and makes me feel loved, but when its coming from a person that is dating other people and moving on what is the point of it???? I almost see it as if shes worried that I already have another girlfriend so this is a ploy to keep me wanting her. Lots of love???? Hug hug kiss kiss???? Does this seem weird to others?? I'm only going to leave the email posted for alittle before I edit the post and remove it...
whichwayisup Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 She wants you to want her but seems in a way she's just seeing how you will react to her. Maybe she really does want you back and is saying enough to make you stop and think, because she does say Well, I have to do some homework. I am done writing for today. I just hope that you are happy and doing well. I know that knowing about you being with other people is really difficult, but even though it hurts me, I just want to you to be happy. I don't want you to hurt or feel sad. I hope you are starting to fit in and have a nice time. I just want you to know how much I love you and care for you. Please never forget it!! Lots of love, [girlfriend] And that says ALOT. It's like she's waiting now for you to put the ball back into play. That and noticed right off that she didn't mention ANYTHING about paying you back the money she owes from the phone bill. That made me wonder.
Author ttjames Posted February 28, 2005 Author Posted February 28, 2005 It's like she's waiting now for you to put the ball back into play. [bAM!!! Hits ball way off in left field... FOUL!!! ] I'm not putting the ball into play for this game! She actually did mention something about the bill in the first section. I thought it was pretty much irrelvent to the rest of the email so I cut it out.. Yeah I'm not sure how I'm going to reply.... I haven't really said anything about what I've been doing while we've been apart, except that I'm partying and having a good time. SO everything else is left up to her imagination. And i know how she is, so she's probably thinking that I'm hitting everything pretty that comes across my path. Which I'm not, but she doesn't know that... I think it's better to just leave her wondering... Maybe she really does want you back and is saying enough to make you stop and think I think that we both want each other back but also know that now is not the time. Thanks for the input though...
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