udelgirl Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 hi! just recently i started talking to my ex again. things are sort of weird right now, especially since he has a new girlriend! we weren't really expressive with our emotions when we were going out, so me talking to him now and being sweet and lovey i think has freaked him out quite a bit! anyhow, my car has broken down and now i need a ride back to my hometown. he is the only person i know who can give me a ride. i am hesitant to call him and ask him. we are both strongly superstitious people, and i wonder if he'll think of this as a sign of us needing to meet again and be together, if i tell him about my situation. what do you think?
Pocky Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 Opportunity for what? If you were his current girlfriend would you be comfortable with him driving his ex-girlfriend home?
strange love Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 You know what I realized lately about being on here I never used to analyze or double check every single step I made If I thought to do something it was just yes or no.. 2 forks in the road. If you are thinking about doing something just do it. It can be end up being something or nothing. Just think about this way.. how woudl you feel if when your 80 and you look back and think I should have asked him for a ride.. what if what if??? thats my advice
Author udelgirl Posted February 28, 2005 Author Posted February 28, 2005 when he was going out w/ his g/f though a couple months ago, he asked me if i needed a ride and offered to drive. he said if i ever needed anything to call him, and this was just lately. so i think i am simply just taking up his offer.... and hoping to clear his confusion with his feelings for me. we used to always have good talks on driving home (he used to give me rides often).
jen03 Posted March 2, 2005 Posted March 2, 2005 Nope. You said you might have freaked him out with talking to him again. Now it's his turn to grow up and decide if he truly has feelings for you. Pushing it too much usually only results in pushing that person away from you, unless they TRULY are interested in you - in which case, assuming they are normal, they'll most definitely come to you, no ambiguous questions asked!
Author udelgirl Posted March 2, 2005 Author Posted March 2, 2005 yes but he is the type who rarely initiates anything and is usually just comfortable where he is, and won't go after something even if he really wants it. he's used to things just coming to him b/c he's pretty good looking and smart; every girl he's had has approached him first. he gets his jobs through his parent's connections. he's just that type of person i think. he's sorta insecure too. dont know if that influences it at all....?
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