sly_fly1 Posted August 19, 2014 Posted August 19, 2014 ok. we are not broke up. but my girlfriend has a problem. she is very mentally abusive, when she doesnt get her way, she calls me down, she brings me down, she makes it seem like her life is so bad because of me. why do i love this woman, is it because she never used to be like this? she used to be awsome. now she is just a night mare. i found this post online, things 1-10 explain how my gf is 10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully | A Shrink for Men it drives me crazy because she does this thing when she gets mad , she ignores me. she wont answer my calls. she wont reply to my texts. she acts like a child. i am trying to get it through her head, the reason why she is mad , this is what happend, we were getting a place, then i realized that i cant afford the rent to this place. so i decided not to get it. in order to get it i would of had to borrow 1300 from my brother, i already owe him 2700, i didnt want to keep bugging him for money. i called my gf , she was happy at first to talk to me, then i said i didnt think we could afford this place. then she started with attitude , then nope nope its ok ill just get my own place, then she said, your full of empty promises, then our relationships going no where, then she brought up other stuff that wasnt part of the conversation, then she hung up on me and wouldnt answer, n now she wont talk to me, all because i realized that we couldnt afford this place. why do people turn into these monsters over time. its so frustrating when some one ignores you, it literly makes you want to kill your self at the time. im frustrated and it makes me sad when she does this . but its like she never used to , now she does it all the time.
Zahara Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Unfortunately she's not going to change. You were griping about this a few months ago. You either live with it or leave her. This is who she is. Instead of questioning her behavior, look at yourself. What about you likes being abused? Don't say love.
Author sly_fly1 Posted August 20, 2014 Author Posted August 20, 2014 i dont even know, i tried to go to her hosue last night n talk to her , she started swearing and getting really mad that i was there, every time i tried to ask why she was getting mad she would get even more mad, then she eventually plugged her ears like a little kid, it was really wierd. today i texted her and asked why she keeps distancing her self and getting mad at everything and why she keeps having grudges against me. this made her even more mad. now she says she doesnt want to talk to me for a long time, this is getting ridiculous, if shes not going to talk to me or if shes going to end our relationship for no reason, im just going to end it, this is getting stupid, she gets so mad that when i talk about whats going on or whats wrong, she starts screaming and getting defensive and angry and threatens me, like wtf, im tempted to punch her out
Zahara Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 Stop acting like a doormat. Women find it highly unattractive. 1
Recommended Posts