Lovestruckk87 Posted August 19, 2014 Posted August 19, 2014 I honestly wasn't sure where to put this as I don't think shes coming back however, I posted last week about our break up which if you want to read http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/489843-my-turn Anyway, so throughout the week we were home she was acting super shady and quite mean as I wrote about, and even shortened her okay to "ok". She went back to North C. where we shared our home for the last two years last Sunday. When she got home it seemed like things changed, she started being super nice to me again, she even was like , "I think Ill use okay now lol" . So here I am thinking what the hell is going on? The day before you deleted all of our photos and removed me on social media. Now ever since Sunday, shes tried to talk to me, yesterday she messaged me early in the morning showing me several .gifs of dogs and we talked throughout the day, and then she skyped me last night to show me how our cats we got were doing. Today, sure enough at 10am she messaged me to talk, and we talked for a bit until I said I was going to leave her be, and she said really it was fine and I didn't have to. I brought up numerous times how she had told me just last weekend friends don't talk everyday etc. She just responds by saying, well if I didn't want to talk I wouldn't respond, or initiate. My question is, what is going on? Is she doing this to ease her own guilt? Is she lonely? Is she mean and messing with my head? any help would be appreciated!
54JA Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 I think that she is having a hard time letting you and the relationship go.
Author Lovestruckk87 Posted August 20, 2014 Author Posted August 20, 2014 I can see that being the case, althoug she has continually said she doesnt miss me etc. I tried NC but she just keeps talking. Its weird, it just is kind of like we are sucked towards one another until one of us goes NC. Unfortunately I think its going to have to be me, as hard as it is.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted August 20, 2014 Posted August 20, 2014 I could be totally off the mark here but I think she wants you to fight for her x
Author Lovestruckk87 Posted August 24, 2014 Author Posted August 24, 2014 I wish it was something that simple. I have no problem fighting for her, or showing I care. I apologize for the WoT, you guys have been great. Update: So we talked sparingly throughout the week as I noted, and on Friday we kind of got into a small argument, me knowing it wasn't anything kept my cool and it just seemed to piss her off more and more until she eventually started throwing out words like, you are pathetic, and I felt sorry for you etc. I only loved you as a friend. I It choked me up quite a bit because I had never said anything mean to her, or to anyone about her and I just said I can't believe you'd do that and ironically the call was lost. It was a sign from above, anyway she blew up my phone through texting all the rest of the night via texting, and then even tried to Skype me. Yesterday we talked a solid amount, she then brought up how 3 random "Creepy" guys had hit on her and she was scared they would know where she lived. So then we talked about skyping, and she said, "Well I don't want to make this harder on you, we don't have to talk anymore if you dont want." so I responded with a do whatever you want and she proceeded to call me 4 times on skype. Well we eventually got to skyping and we did so for about an hour, and at times I caught her looking at me like she used to when things were great. She kept apologizing for how rude she was to me the other night, and I just said to her the reason I won't say anything bad is because I have no reason to, I dont want to and also in two months I don't want to look back when things are cooled down and say wow I shouldn't of said that. Then we talked about me coming to get all my stuff and she said she had put it in boxes so it would be ready for me, she then just about fell asleep on skype with me, but I let her go. Today we haven't talked and its driving me nuts but I am remaining strong.
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