Orije Posted August 18, 2014 Posted August 18, 2014 Hello guys, I have a quick question. Have any of you guys remained in contact or try to create conversation with an ex and things worked out? I bring up this question because me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago after a almost 3 month relationship and she has been on my mind alot. We broke up due to her going to college and she doesn't want to worry about me while she is away since it will bother her studies. I've had the urge to text her, but I told myself not to. She seems to be doing well going out with friends and everything so its good she is doing well, but tough on my part. She will be going to college on the 25th as her first year. Is it alright to send a text saying "Hey there beautiful, goodluck with your first year of college. I know you can do well! :)". The relationship didn't end in a bad way. We talked about being together later in life if things go well and if we are still interested in each other. For now i told her we couldn't be friends because it would hurt us due to missing each other and affect our studies. Is it alright to send the text or should I just try to move on? I really like her and her family. This is tough on me >.< thanks guys!
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted August 18, 2014 Posted August 18, 2014 Hello guys, I have a quick question. Have any of you guys remained in contact or try to create conversation with an ex and things worked out? I bring up this question because me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago after a almost 3 month relationship and she has been on my mind alot. We broke up due to her going to college and she doesn't want to worry about me while she is away since it will bother her studies. I've had the urge to text her, but I told myself not to. She seems to be doing well going out with friends and everything so its good she is doing well, but tough on my part. She will be going to college on the 25th as her first year. Is it alright to send a text saying "Hey there beautiful, goodluck with your first year of college. I know you can do well! :)". The relationship didn't end in a bad way. We talked about being together later in life if things go well and if we are still interested in each other. For now i told her we couldn't be friends because it would hurt us due to missing each other and affect our studies. Is it alright to send the text or should I just try to move on? I really like her and her family. This is tough on me >.< thanks guys! Oh god no. Sending ANY text is pretty bad after a BU, but saying hey beautiful" after something like that will look pretty bad. You guys are REALLY young still. I doubt she could tell you what she is going to do tomorrow much less her life. You're going to get a lot of life here soon and really quick. I know it sucks, but some of the best parts of your life are about to happen. If its meant to be, it will happen. It sounds like she wants to be single and enjoy her life. You gotta let her go and do that. MAYBE one day she will realize that after some of these other guys that you were actually the best one. By THAT time (if it ever happens), you will be in a MUCH better place as a person and can decide rationally. Good luck man.
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