NYC-BigKat Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 So so sorry but I had to do it . She works on the floor under me & she was always upstairs in my unit talking to me & my coworker. I thought she liked him 'cause she kept talking to him but then after we all went to atlantic city last night she made a move on me & I rejected her after the kiss. I didn't like it or the way she smelled so I avoided her all night & then my coworker asked me about going out with her I said no I wont do it . Um...then she wanted to know what my problem was & if we could hang out & I said no & now she told everyone I rejected her & everyone says I'm not a part of the team anymore . Not sure what to do from here.
MrMeh Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 You did the right thing. You didn't lead her on and you seemed to have made it pretty obvious. Who cares if they're mad. You pick what you're attracted to ,not them.
preraph Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 Well, I doubt "everyone" is telling you that because you rejected her, you are not a part of the team. I suspect "someone" who is a very close friend of hers is who said that, and she's a little f-wad who you ought to report to management or HR. Anyone at work who is hitting on you and then trying to retaliate by telling you something like that should be reported. You did the only thing you could do under the circumstances -- and I can assure you that working women everywhere have been in a similar circumstance and had to also face the ire of their male coworker or boss when they rejected their advances. And over the decades, many women have lost their jobs because of it. These days, there's civil lawsuits, so if any bad comes from this, you go hire a discrimination lawyer. 2
sid3 Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 I'm confused, what "team" are you no longer part of?
Author NYC-BigKat Posted August 18, 2014 Author Posted August 18, 2014 I'm confused, what "team" are you no longer part of? Thanks for advice I think? He said I'm not a part of the team 'cause he says that we're supposed to be family at work 'cause we're a small group & stuff & almost everyone is dating or messing around & I didn't wanna do it but they all wanted me to but I still don't wanna do it u know so he says I'm not the team player 'cause of it. He's the only one that said it but others are looking at me though like they knew what happened .
Supernatural Posted August 18, 2014 Posted August 18, 2014 So so sorry but I had to do it . She works on the floor under me & she was always upstairs in my unit talking to me & my coworker. I thought she liked him 'cause she kept talking to him but then after we all went to atlantic city last night she made a move on me & I rejected her after the kiss. I didn't like it or the way she smelled so I avoided her all night & then my coworker asked me about going out with her I said no I wont do it . Um...then she wanted to know what my problem was & if we could hang out & I said no & now she told everyone I rejected her & everyone says I'm not a part of the team anymore . Not sure what to do from here. INT. BOSS' OFFICE BIGKAT ENTERS Boss: Sit down, BigKat. We need to talk. BigKat: Yes sir. Is... Something the matter? Boss: BigKat, BigKat, BigKat.... BigKat:Sir. Boss: If you want to be apart of the team... You have to perform cunnilingus on the smelly girl. .....You do what to be apart of the team....... Don't you, BigKat? Here at DumpCo. We all F*ck eachother as it aids in healthy team building. When a chain on the whole braid doesn't mend well with the group... That braided chain snaps... You're breaking the chain. So I suggest you be a team player.... BigKat: Bu--- Boss: No Buts. Back to work. And make sure you bring her flowers to make up for her tears... BigKat walks out in shock. 2
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