Last shot Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 (edited) Hello. Thanks for taking the time to read this post.. With that said I will try to make it as short as possible.. This relationship started three years ago... When I first met this girls we exchanged numbers and started texting.. I was married at this time and told this girl that .. I was emotionally detached from my wife and things were not good.. I hadn't been sexually active with my wife in over a year...as time passed we became more involved with each other , and after 4 months we started a full blow affair.. Now this carried on for a year ( I know that sound ****ty and it is ) but there is children involved I have three boys she has 4 kids 1 boy and girl from her previous marriage and two little ones from her last relationship.. I told her numerous times that I didn't want to the children and my self to get hurt and that's why I carried it on for so long ... Finally when I was finically set and could afford proper child support payments I split with my wife ( I wanted to do this a long time ago but didn't want to feel like I was abandon my kids ) . So finally I could start my new life with this women who I thought was perfect for me ... We introduced the kids etc in time and things seemed good for awhile .. Now this is where things got strange ... I noticed the she was getting moodier and moodier .. So I confronted her on whaot was up .. Found out the her ex had been texting her a lot and wanted her back ... ( now this guy kicked her out with two small babies for another women that he was having a affair with) .. Found out that one night she went and visited him ,, she said all the did was kiss and if felt wrong to her ... So I forgave her for it the best I could and me carried along with our relationship ... That summer she asked me to marry her ... I said I would when the time was right.... ( believe me I was very happy with her) Then I started noticing a pattern , everytime this guys had a issue with his girlfriend He would and sweet talk her ... Now this made me very mad and jealous very jealous ... And well trust just wasn't there...I tried my best to talk to her about it but she always got frustrated and we argued about it all the time, guys/ladies I talked it to death ... I really do love her very much ... But I couldn't handle the stress and jealousy ... Making me suspicious of everything ... He'd text her and say **** like " had to be with someone when you in love with someone like you" I begged her to get him to stop...and to help me get over this jealousy .. But they have kids together so they have to stay in contact right.... I wanted to beat this $&@$ idiot to death but I didn't want a assault charge etc... Finally she told me she was in love with two me and we split up .... The next day she was with him and he has all but moved in ... Now a part of me wants her back so bad and another part of me dosent think it would ever work out now ... I haven't contacted her in three weeks and well I was thinking I should write a letter apologizing for the jealousy .. In other words what should I do ??? Edited August 17, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
ThorntonMelon Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 You should remember that your children deserve better than a filthy cheating trashbag ho of a stepmother. Jealousy isn't jealousy if she actually is cheating. Now, understand this is karma biting you in the ass for cheating on your wife, and go to therapy and learn how to find a healthy relationship. And in the meantime take the energy you're wasting on this woman and put it all on your kids, the victims of this mess you're in the middle of.
Author Last shot Posted August 17, 2014 Author Posted August 17, 2014 I have been ... And I'm also keeping my self busy working .. Just hard to believe it all after three years she's just jumped right back to him
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