PersonaPersona Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 After 60 days of NC. My Ex texted me with an explanation on how he wants to see me and talk to me because he missed me. When I saw him (which was Friday), he told me he missed me as a friend and romantically and the reason he dumped me was stupid. He told me that I was perfect for him and that he'd want to give the relationship another try. Now, in this moment I was basically like "Oh Sh*t" because I wasn't expecting him to want to reconcile. I told him that if he wanted another chance, he'd have to earn it. I'm just afraid of history repeating itself and getting hurt again. I really don't want to. It was a good day, but, we haven't talked since. Some of my friends told me that I shouldn't have even talked to him to begin with, but I thought I was ready, and I believe I handled the situation well enough. Do I still have feelings for him? I'm not sure, to be honest. In these past 2 months of NC, I believed that it was over and I cried, got angry, and began to heal and move on. I had the mindset that he'd never want me back, and so I picked myself up and began to heal. Please, if anyone is in the same situation or has been through something like this, I need advice for where to go from here.
ThorntonMelon Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 Why haven't you talked since? Who's court is it in? Sometimes it's worth it, sometimes not. Depends on your feelings, his feelings, his passion for you, his integrity...etc.
HereTodayGoneTomorow Posted August 17, 2014 Posted August 17, 2014 Take some time out to think about what it is you want. Sometimes it takes guys much longer than women to know what/who they want and he realised this during the 'break'. Depending how you feel about you two, maybe give it one more shot. You more regret the things you didnt do then the ones you did do.
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