MissingHerBad Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 Hey everyone....Its been a while since Ive posted. I see alot of new names but just know that you'll all get over what ever it is your going through. Can I ask the ladies this question or even the men : My gf broke up with me is September. It was certainly the worst thing Ive ever had to deal with believe it or not, none the less I have dealt with it and been very bussy. I still love her to death but she has a new boyfriend and were both very bussy. She knows the way I feel.... Our only form of communication is email and due to my schedule I really havent had the time or thought to write her. Besides when she writes me its just about how bussy she is and her new bf. Anyways, after not writing her for three weeks she sends me an email regarding the situation and how it is so sad that we couldnt even make a friendship work(this after going out for almost two years). I dont really give a !@#$ anymore because Im starting to think that she is somewhat loopy. WHY DOES SHE BOTHER WRITING HARSH EMAILS STILL TO THIS DAY? I dont understand this. Theres absolutely no reason for it. Im not rude or mean to her and she knows I love her to death. Why not just leave me alone? Does she honestly really care if I email her or does she just want to have the last word? The situation doesnt really bother me a whole lot but If someone could give me some insight into this behavior I would certainly love to here it. Feel free to ask any questions to get to the bottom of this lol
No Foolin Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 First, deep 6 your e-mail account and get a new one. Second, you were with her for 2 years there will always be a connection, period. Third, she stays in contact as a "just in case" measure, just in case things don't work out between her and her new hook up. Your her B game. You are your own A game. You will only heal when she is gone. No contact brother. No Foolin
jellybean Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 Hi MissingHerBad!!!..... I've followed your story from the beginning, and often wonder how you are doing. You sound like you are doing much better than before, but this email stuff has to stop. It's interferring with your healing. Oh, and just a suggestion - a good start might be to change your screen name. The mods will do this for you, and all your previous posts will still remain intact. 'MissingHerBad' is soooo yesterday...that's not the person you are anymore, you've come along way.... Pick a new username that feels true to YOU... and to hell with that b*tch.
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