Mavwalni Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Hi I am going to trying to make this short, ok lets go to the point. There is this girl, where we met in a chess tournament and we where paired and she beat me , I got so mad about it, anyway. After that I met her again in a chess tournament (we only meet in chess tournaments, because we live fairly apart from each other), but this time I got extremely attracted to her and I started talking to her. But now I don't know if she is interested in me, I am totally in love with her, but I don't know about her, when we talk I always start the talking and I am the one that mostly speaks, but she doesn't seem to want to leave me, we end when her parents come or something like that. My question is: IS SHE INTERESTED IN ME???? I read everything on the web and she has mixed signals. I am 16 she is 14, we are both homeschooled. So what is next? What should I do? I think she is shy, but I don't know if she doesn't speak much because of shyness. I did an experiment: I stared at her and when she looked at me I look away, and I think she stares at me as well. Please help I don't know if should keep thinking about her, but when I am with her I feel like if she is the one. Thanks in advance.
preraph Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 She probably likes you, but she may not be allowed to date or have boyfriends yet. Have you considered talking to your mom or dad about it and they could maybe contact her parents and see what she's allowed to do. Maybe you could invite her to your birthday party or something like that along with other people and she'd be allowed to do that. If you weren't home-schooled, you'd just hang out and be bf/gf in the halls at school. Homeschooling really messes up the opportunities for socializing. Since they homeschooling you, your parents are kind of obligated to be sure to create other ways for you to socialize, so I would go hand this over to them. But really, she may be too young for any real date and only be allowed out in groups.
LustAppeal Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 You’re 16 and she’s 14, at that age it’s hard to tell if flirting is flirting or just her being polite. Yes there’s allot of dating, body language, and attraction articles out there, BUT unfortunately there’s hardly anything relating to your age group. Those articles are normally designed for an older age group who have flirting, dating, social, and usually sexual experiences. I always told myself, if I knew what I know now during high school I would be a god at dating. But like I said most young adults even through high school are just getting into dating and have little experience socializing on a flirtatious standpoint. Besides the distance at that age it’s even harder to meet up alone. Just try to communicate with her as much as possible, be open to her about the way you feel (keep love out of it, trust me you may feel “in love” but it’s more lust than love), and don’t be afraid to push out of you comfort zone a little. Give her a hug, move in closer when you talk, look her in the eyes… etc. Just know when to back off. Good luck, trust me, you’ll have plenty of chances with other cute girls if this one goes south.
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