Mavwalni Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Hi, ok lets go to the point. There is this girl, where we met in a chess tournament and we where paired and she beat me , I got so mad about it, anyway. After that I met her again in a chess tournament (we only meet in chess tournaments, because we live fairly apart from each other), but this time I got extremely attracted to her and I started talking to her. But now I don't know if she is interested in me, I am totally in love with her, but I don't know about her, when we talk I always start the talking and I am the one that mostly speaks, but she doesn't seem to want to leave me, we end when her parents come or something like that. My question is: IS SHE INTERESTED IN ME???? I read everything on the web and she has mixed signals. I am 16 she is 14, we are both homeschooled. So what is next? What should I do? I think she is shy, but I don't know if she doesn't speak much because of shyness. I did an experiment: I stared at her and when she looked at me I look away, and I think she stares at me as well. Please help I don't know if should keep thinking about her, but when I am with her I feel like if she is the one. Thanks in advance.
umirano Posted August 16, 2014 Posted August 16, 2014 You're not going to be with her forever. BUT: If you don't talk to her now, if you don't let her know how you feel about her, you may never be with her in the first place. Obviously you're better off talking to her. Even if you're nervous and say something that sounds dumb in your ears (it may not in hers). So you're safe to just tell her what and how you feel. On a practical note you could just tell her you think she's cute and that you'd like to meet her for ... (something other than playing chess in a tournament). Good luck
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