StanMusial Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I gave a girl a ride home from the office last night and before she got out of the car she tried to kiss me. Should I tell my fiance? Things are great right now for us. I don't want her to be concerned over this because she's the only one I want.
Art_Critic Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Was she trying to really kiss you romantically or or give you a kiss goodbye because you had just done her a favor ? If it was the 'thanks for doing me a favor' then no, don't tell her but if she has the hots for you then yeah.. you might want to mention it as those types of things have ways they manifest themselves into issues later on.. 2
Toddbt12y1 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Was she trying to really kiss you romantically or or give you a kiss goodbye because you had just done her a favor ? If it was the 'thanks for doing me a favor' then no, don't tell her but if she has the hots for you then yeah.. you might want to mention it as those types of things have ways they manifest themselves into issues later on.. I tend to agree with this. Telling her the truth, may result in some backlash, yet, it shows that you have nothing to hide; certainly, have no intention of anything with this girl. I'd definitely not give her another ride home. One great aspect of a relationship is trust, with that: Truth. Communication conducted in a proper manner being another. After all, as Art said, these things have a way of getting out. If it does, and you concealed it, it'll be worse on you. 1
Smilecharmer Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I would want to know because it would reinforce my trust if you told me something that you knew felt uncomfortable to us both. This is how my husband handles unwanted female attention. It makes me feel good that he is transparent so I don't have to worry about outside attention. Secrecy only reinforces distrust. You both will laugh about it later.
Author StanMusial Posted August 15, 2014 Author Posted August 15, 2014 She is going to hate that girl probably. But I'm going to tell her and just deal with it. Dammit.
Toddbt12y1 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 She is going to hate that girl probably. But I'm going to tell her and just deal with it. Dammit. Better than any Ill chance that she finds out by any other source. It'll be all well. Avoid this other woman.
Nimme Posted August 16, 2014 Posted August 16, 2014 If it would happen to her. Would YOU like to know about it?
Author StanMusial Posted August 17, 2014 Author Posted August 17, 2014 If it would happen to her. Would YOU like to know about it? I don't think any girls have tried to kiss her but I know a couple of dudes that made a pass at her LOL. I told her about it... I have a work function next weekend that we are going to, I know that girl might be there. I told her about the goofy, awkward girl that has a crush on me and that from now on I will avoid her.
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