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Friends with someone who rejected? Moving. (See Below)


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Hi All :)

 

 

If you were friends with someone and you found out they were moving; And you asked them out and they said "No";

 

Would you ask for their contact information to stay in touch?

 

Why and why not?

 

If so; how would you go about asking?

 

 

 

Thank you All.

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Questions first....

 

1. How long have I known this person?

2. Were we ever true friends or did I always secretly want them?

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3 months. They knew you liked them as more than a friend.

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Hi All :)

 

 

If you were friends with someone and you found out they were moving; And you asked them out and they said "No";

 

Would you ask for their contact information to stay in touch?

 

Why and why not?

 

If so; how would you go about asking?

 

 

 

Thank you All.

 

First of all, the fact that you never asked them out on a date until you found out they were moving implies you did it as a last ditch effort.

 

Second, they've already told you that you're not interested. Your wanting their contact information kind of makes you look like a stalker, and seem desperate.

 

Third, long distance relationships usually don't work.

 

Don't defile yourself any further. Move on.

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No I asked them out more than that, but to no avail. We would still talk though. I asked her one last time.

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3 months. They knew you liked them as more than a friend.

 

There is no point. You asked them out, they said no. You were never friends.

 

"Nothing to see here, folks."

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