JBlackstone Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 At the end of your relationship did anyone have their ex return to one of THEIR exes or start up something with someone from their past? To me this just screams low self esteem to accept attention/sex/whatever from someone you know just ended a 4 year relationship one month ago. It kind of disgusts me and I just don't understand how people can be that way!!
Author JBlackstone Posted August 15, 2014 Author Posted August 15, 2014 I think what disgusts me most is that this new girl is the type to constantly post 1/2 naked selfies, like multiple times a day. I am not like this at all. I didn't think he was into this type of girl either. Guess she is just an easy target. hmm
shoegal4 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Black stone - as someone going through something similar I hear what you're saying. You said it best yourself - she is the fall back girl. The easy target. Something familiar that will make him feel good. Nothing more, nothing less. My ex's fall back girl also posts extremely inappropriate things but if he's ok with being associated with someone like that, force yourself to not care about someone that desperate. At the end of the day, it's quite pathetic and you have to feel sorry for him. Go out and do you! If she was really that awesome he would have never let her get away from the jump. 1
Author JBlackstone Posted August 15, 2014 Author Posted August 15, 2014 That's what I keep trying to remind myself, that they are the desperate ones. He just seems like a stranger to me now, definitely not the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It's funny how looking back I'm not even sure it was love but more like me desperately trying to get him to love me. Thanks, Shoegal. I try to find folks I can relate to on here but it seems most people want their exes back but I don't. I am repulsed by him.
Recommended Posts