mutegrey3 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 last time I saw this guy we were not together, before then we had a naaty break up after a 5 year **** show/awesome relationship when good. I was really young when it began so maybe it sucked the whole time. anyway we are at this bar and he loses his **** because im there and shoulder checks me, I fall over, all my friends try to kick his ass. later, he and his then girlfriend spit on my face as im standing outside waiting for a cab. worst night ever. its been five months since then. last week im playing a show with my band and his band is playing the same gig im trying to keep a low profile because at that point I was sroll mad at him he comes up to me and offers a big apology and gives me a sack full of cookies and a handmade gift. I dont really say anything he leaves and I get upset, all conflicted and bummed out. I message him and thank him for the gifts he is being all sweet, pulling all the stops, wants me to catch up with him on monday. what do
Allumere Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 He apologized. You can choose to forgive him. I don't see where he said anything about wanting to get back together nor do I get the impression it is top of your list.
Author mutegrey3 Posted August 15, 2014 Author Posted August 15, 2014 He apologized. You can choose to forgive him. I don't see where he said anything about wanting to get back together nor do I get the impression it is top of your list. he keeps telling me that he loves me, and wants to show me how much. that he was upset about what he did and wants to make it up to me. I want to catch up and stuff but im worried he might take any move I make meet up with him too seriously.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 he keeps telling me that he loves me, and wants to show me how much. that he was upset about what he did and wants to make it up to me. I want to catch up and stuff but im worried he might take any move I make meet up with him too seriously. Why the hell would you want to meet up with someone who spit in your face and disrespected you like that? I mean, what would drive you to come to that conclusion? Do you think that little of yourself? I mean, forgive him if you want, but don't consider going back with a person like that. Don't devalue yourself. A person that's capable of committing that type of abhorrent behavior is perfectly capable of doing it again. Why the hell would you even consider that? There are plenty of men who wouldn't consider doing such a thing, much less do it. Don't be a chump.
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