Darren2013 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I have a self imposed rule of not contacting a woman I've been seeing for awhile while I am at work. Not even text message communication. I don't want her to know that I have been daydreaming about her on the job. That can be bad and make me look like I am obsessed with her. Everybody else texts their significant other on their lunch breaks and stuff. I don't do that. I wait until I get off of work first. Don't let your girlfriend bust you for daydreaming about her while you are at work.
Supernatural Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I have a self imposed rule of not contacting a woman I've been seeing for awhile while I am at work. Not even text message communication. I don't want her to know that I have been daydreaming about her on the job. That can be bad and make me look like I am obsessed with her. Everybody else texts their significant other on their lunch breaks and stuff. I don't do that. I wait until I get off of work first. Don't let your girlfriend bust you for daydreaming about her while you are at work. *slow clap* ... Congratulations?... . . . I hate healthy relationships too... . . . Lol... but on a responsive note... I can agree with doing this to a point. I think texting can become too much with some people and we can get in to problems when it's used as a time killer. Or having big conversations. Although, blatantly ignoring someone who cares about you, or you care about is a little odd. Just to not look obsessive. I think it's nice to check in with an interest every once in awhile and wish them a good day or make a plan for after work or another day. Not texting or getting back to someone just to look more important or 'busy' when you're really not is just fake and is a game play. I like having relationships and friendships built on truth and allowing things to happen. And that comes with a genuine clear inner voice from my side. 4
bentleychic Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Yeah, God forbid she thinks you might actually...*gasp*...think about her during the day. She might actually think you...like her! That would be BAD!!! Keep on with that game playing. Let us know in about a year or two how that worked for you, eh? 3
Supernatural Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Yeah, God forbid she thinks you might actually...*gasp*...think about her during the day. She might actually think you...like her! That would be BAD!!! Keep on with that game playing. Let us know in about a year or two how that worked for you, eh? Ya! We're out of here!! *Speeds of in chic's Bentley* --------------------------------- *VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM* 1
preraph Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 My friends and family don't contact each other at work unless an emergency. I will check emails maybe one time during the office shift, but I don't return personal emails from work or call or text unless it's a necessity. And I've outlasted most people there who have their noses in their smartphones when they ought to be working.
torturedartist Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I have a self imposed rule of not contacting a woman I've been seeing for awhile while I am at work. Not even text message communication. I don't want her to know that I have been daydreaming about her on the job. That can be bad and make me look like I am obsessed with her. Everybody else texts their significant other on their lunch breaks and stuff. I don't do that. I wait until I get off of work first. Don't let your girlfriend bust you for daydreaming about her while you are at work. You are way better than all those other people who are honest with their significant others, and allow their actions to reveal their true feelings. Your significant other is really lucky to have someone as incongruent as you.
Gaeta Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 You really think by acting indifferent to a woman that will have her run to you? If a man does not show me sustained interest I lose interest in him pretty fast. There is a difference between texting have a good day and keep her on text all day long. Please learn the difference.
bentleychic Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 My friends and family don't contact each other at work unless an emergency. I will check emails maybe one time during the office shift, but I don't return personal emails from work or call or text unless it's a necessity. And I've outlasted most people there who have their noses in their smartphones when they ought to be working. THAT is admirable if it works for you/your family/friends, etc. However, the original poster is doing this in a manipulative game playing way, according to his original post. He's not doing it so he can be a better worker or devote time to his job.
preraph Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 ^ I know, well, sort of. He's doing it to control himself and modulate his own behavior so he doesn't smother this girl, and that's admirable. There is nothing wrong with not being a constant texter, whatever the reason. It shows you have more productive things to do.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Sorry if Im speaking out of turn here but this post coupled with your last one is showing very strong signs of anxiety/paranoia to a level that is not normal, this left unresolved is going to ruin every relationship for you. Have you been quite hurt recently? I think you could benefit from seeking some professional help, dont be embarrassed its all for the better good. You cant have a healthy relationship when you are like this and I wonder if this is related to past hurt x
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