star_shooter Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Has anyone ever found the person they lost in a relationship? (If they were meant to be in your life; you will see them again) Has this happened to anyone before? How did they come back or what happened? Thank you All
d0nnivain Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 I faded away from some guy He popped back into my life about two years later but that wasn't a forever thing. One a break up happens especially as an adult, reconciliation even after a long time -- unless it was based on circumstances like one person moved -- doesn't really happen. That said, my college roommate dated her husband from junior high school through senior of college & then they broke up because he had GIGs. They were forced to periodically interact because their parents were next door neighbors & the families were close. About 2 years later they started talking again when they found themselves in the same state far from home. They have now been married for almost 25 years. 1
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 i have had guys pop back in to my life but its over it ended fro a reason if i dated them they are out....ill always be friendly but i wouldnt consider dating them again....some things are meant to end for something new to begin...one door closes another opens ........and when i move on...i do move on...i have been asked to revisit and i cant...i prefer not to revisit what didnt work the first time.....deb 1
Dork Vader Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I am in the middle of one and I'd say it is not going well. With out going into details she was a some what bad girl friend. I was not the best boy friened (at least she has made me feel that way). That said deep down I love her and miss her. Despite trying to walk away I just can't. I have dumped her.. She has dumped me (once). It's been a hard 2 months to say the least. The last break up was all her with me going off.. I finally went NC with her and she started texing me. I dropped off a letter saying how I truly felt. We've hung out but I get the general vibe she is not interested, that it is all games and immaturity. That said I've been through other break ups and get back togethers. None seem to last.. The only way they ever can is if the person who caused the end of the relationship has changed.
smackie9 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 I have a few that came back around but, my feelings for them were long gone. I'm one of those who makes a strong effort to get over them asap. One relationship ended because he moved away.....even when we met up 4 years later, I never had any interest.
torturedartist Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Has anyone ever found the person they lost in a relationship? (If they were meant to be in your life; you will see them again) Has this happened to anyone before? How did they come back or what happened? Thank you All There are over 7 billion people in the world, with slightly more women than men. I'm going to say that in 2 billion relationships or so (taking into account children who aren't at dating age yet, and 1% or so of the population who is asexual and has no interest in the opposite or same sex) two people have rekindled a failed relationship once or twice. It might have even happened three or four times. If you're wanting someone to guarantee you that you'll be reunited with the person you're referring to because life is like some after-school special or Hallmark movie, that person isn't going to be me. Move on with your life. Being hung up on one person who doesn't reciprocate your sentiments is pretty much a guarantee you won't have them, because in doing so you lower your perceived value to them.
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