fred123 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 if a girl has no interest in you as more than a friend then why does she act like ur gf? sending u messages all the time. get annoyed if u dont reply?! i mean this girl i didnt reply bak for two days and i got 3 messages in two days! triple message. now i have no problem girls acting like my gf if they want to be but they dont! so why they act like this and not like a normal friend?!
d0nnivain Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 They like the attention. It's an ego boost to be chased.
Fondue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 They like the attention. It's an ego boost to be chased. Which is EXACTLY why men should stop coddling this kind of behavior. In the long run, it would probably lead to healthier self esteems when you're not judging your self worth by the amount of orbiters you have around you. You will no longer think that everything is reliant on your beauty (or whatever other feminine trait that is shallow). 1
Assasda Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 its because youre a "safe" guy to be around fred123 Every post that you ever make youre a victim. People tell you want to do and whats going wrong and you still dont believe them
preraph Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 if a girl has no interest in you as more than a friend then why does she act like ur gf? sending u messages all the time. get annoyed if u dont reply?! i mean this girl i didnt reply bak for two days and i got 3 messages in two days! triple message. now i have no problem girls acting like my gf if they want to be but they dont! so why they act like this and not like a normal friend?! I think your post should be the name of a category in this forum because it seems like half the posts are people freaking out but other people not texting back timely - and just as many men as women. For those who are texting and not getting timely return, the above important message is brought to you by fred123.
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 I honestly dont think sending a message to a guy means i think i am his gf....i dont feel if i send a message it is an imposition on my part to receive a reply..just like when guys send me messages i don't feel they are my bf or think they are my boyfriend because i actually reply to them ...its called being polite.....and or friendly.....i dont feel special or entitled because guys send me messages or orbit and talk to me on occasion i just think they are friends who care a little(they normally ask hey how you doing deb) so they regard me as a friend they can message.....thats it......until they say deb lets go out lets do this lets do that or are you busy friday night......i see them as friends.....and if its nothing more than that i dont think i am being chased.....or do i play coy and want to be chased....i am up front.......i let them know if they approach taking me out on a date that i see them as a friend and nothing more........deb 1
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