cocacolaman1978 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 My wife and I separated 4 weeks ago when i told her i had been texting this woman for the last three days. I had no intentions with this woman she was from venezuela and I was honestly just curious about her but not as in sexually or emotionally. I have also had issues of trusting my wife with no reasons not to trust her. I guess self security issues which I have been addressing these last 4 weeks. Well talking to that woman iced the cake and my wife took some clothes and is staying at her sisters which has disliked me from the beginning, she is very upper class and did not approve of her sister being with me. We text daily numerous times sometimes she acts distant and cold and other times she's not. She tells me she loves me, misses me, but i broke her heart and she doesn't know how to trust. She hopes for our marriage to work out but doesn't know how to get there. She tells me she feels very defensive and guarded towards me and just has mixed emotions right now. we were both under a ton of stress and she deals with depression on top of it. I have been very supportive loving and respectful of her during this time apart. She doesnt seem to want t talk about her hopes feelings or wants she simply just wont respond to any questions concerning those topics. So i feel very much in the dark about it all. I dont beg or plead or harass her in any way i usually let her be the one to text me. Sometimes I think shes just testing me due to she told me shes noticed a consistent positive change in my actions which pleases her but also makes her upset because im being now what she wanted me to be befor she left. Any thoughts, Ideas.
Mr. Lucky Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 My wife and I separated 4 weeks ago when i told her i had been texting this woman for the last three days. Why would a married man invest 3 days is texting a woman other than his wife ??? Mr. Lucky
Author cocacolaman1978 Posted August 15, 2014 Author Posted August 15, 2014 this girl started messaging me on tango which i was new to. The next day I deleted tango to stop her from contacting me. Well i did not know that your phone number also appears to others on that social media site so she starts texting me i texted back nothing innapropriate and by no means do I consider it a emotional affair. I ended up letting her know that we can not talk anymore cause i realized she was maybe looking for more. I showed my wife the text and in her eyes i was having an emotional affair or looking for something with this woman
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