nnysnowbunny Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 I posted here awhile back back but cannot find it.So I will just add on I will give a little overveiw first.I was seeing a guy I met through work he was really nice at first he would call me all the time spend lots of time with me on messenger.....but things were odd to alot of weird behavior I would go to his apartment and he would give me my "Q" to leave and I would not be there long. Then I found a tampon in his garbage and he made up a couple differant stories about that.I would send him emails and tell him off and dump him and he would call and I'd go back. He had a personal ad on so I ask him why and he said he was keeping his options open.So my friend talked to him on messenger and told him she was gonna be working in our area and was looking for fun and he fell for it....and she sent me all there conversations and he talked and said all the same things to her he did me. Also by this time he is not talking to me hardly at all on messenger and the phone calls are down to one minute. I told him finaly what I had done to set him up and he didn't even get mad and he always denied being a paid customer. Well needless to say we decided to be friends after all the times I broke up with him and told him NC and he would anyways and he was still kissing on me and having sex with me. So I am getting mixed signals. Well the day before my birthday he gets on messenger remember he doesn't talk to me much on there always a feeble excuse why he has to go (I failed to mention he is an internet junky he doesn't even watch tv and his apartment is a total mess)and says to me are we friends? I said yes. and he goes really good friends? yeah and he goes I got a problem. I go what do you need? and he goes my car broke down. So I said oh do you need to use mine to go to work? and he says yes would you? So I let him use it. Then he tells me he has to get off,yeah whatever someones was waiting on him. So the next day my birthday and valentines day I go pick him up and he never says happy b-day or happy v-day nothing and he knows it's my b-day. He takes me to my job and drops me off and goes on his way. By the way I went I bought him a bag full of goodies for v-day and left them on his door. Next day he uses my car again. Well I am now searching the personal ads because he's giving me this line he is shy I am the only one and for some reason he just can't let me go all this on the second day of using my car.....and as I am going through the personals I find him on about all of them and I see he has been on one of them while he is borrowing my car looking,it gives the time you log on. I was so mad when he picked me up that night I could barely talk and he knew I was upset about something and he kept going I am not gonna get a long email tonight am I? and I said nope. He didn't use my car the next day a fellow worker let him use hers. Needless to say I did send him a long email the next day and I was not nice I told him all about all the personals and how he was logged on when he was using my car looking for chicks and I knew he was a paid customer and he could not give me the time of day and he used me and well I said alot. I told him to put me on ignore on his messenger and to forget my phone number to forget he ever knew me it shouldn't be hard he never cared anyways. Well he took all his personal ads off that day but I do know you can hide them and if you find an interest send it to them,so he is not fooling me. I know he has lots going on with dates off the personals. Well he has not contacted me at all in almost 2 weeks...I guess I was hoping he would defend himself but he did not. I wonder does he ever think about me? I have been having a hard time with this and I want to kick myself because I know what he is...but I still want him why? Is it because I know he doesn't want me? I am having a hard time with this I can't believe he could do this to me.....any help would be great!! I need some advice to get me through this.
_Saffy_ Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 jeeeeeeez get a grip......this guy should have been kicked into touch the minute he hit on ya mate.
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