PersonaPersona Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 I just hit day 60 of complete NC (Yay!) and yesterday I got a message from one of my friends asking why I'm not responding to my ex's texts (he's blocked so of course I can't respond) It's annoying because he wants to talk to me for the same reason as the last time he contacted me, to "talk things out" and "go back to talking to each other, I kind of really miss you" Last time I tried to "talk about things", it made more drama and we tried being friends but I still had feelings and he made things so awkward to the point where it was so uncomfortable talking to him. What could he possibly want now -___-
Simon Phoenix Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 I just hit day 60 of complete NC (Yay!) and yesterday I got a message from one of my friends asking why I'm not responding to my ex's texts (he's blocked so of course I can't respond) It's annoying because he wants to talk to me for the same reason as the last time he contacted me, to "talk things out" and "go back to talking to each other, I kind of really miss you" Last time I tried to "talk about things", it made more drama and we tried being friends but I still had feelings and he made things so awkward to the point where it was so uncomfortable talking to him. What could he possibly want now -___- Obviously nothing important if he's not willing to move past the texting stage. I would keep ignoring -- he's played you for a fool in the past to get familiar comfort, so don't fall for it again. If it's really important, he'll go beyond texting. 2
Author PersonaPersona Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 Obviously nothing important if he's not willing to move past the texting stage. I would keep ignoring -- he's played you for a fool in the past to get familiar comfort, so don't fall for it again. If it's really important, he'll go beyond texting. He texted me later on telling me he found it a bit hard on how he handled things and he'd like to speak to me in person. Hmmm... To give him that opportunity or not.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 He texted me later on telling me he found it a bit hard on how he handled things and he'd like to speak to me in person. Hmmm... To give him that opportunity or not. I wouldn't. And why did you unblock him? You aren't supposed to make this easy on him -- it's up to him to go above and beyond the call of duty to show that he's serious. Stop helping him out and stay No Contact. 1
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 He's suffering survivors guilt. Did he say "I love you and made a terrible mistake. I want to be with you?". If not, nothing's changed. Let him deal with his guilt as he should, alone. 3
Michael 93 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Ignore. Worst mistake you can make is to reply 1
Author PersonaPersona Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 Ignore. Worst mistake you can make is to reply Thank you all for the replies, I did not reply (points for not falling for it) School is going to be a little interesting when I see him around in the hallways and such. 1
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