CTS13 Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 So I am terrible at judging things, like if a girl is interested or not. We go out Thursday-Saturday to the bars together. Sometimes she comes by herself to meet up with me and sometimes I do the same. We never go out just by ourselves together. We don't talk during the rest of the week (unless SnapChat counts haha). She knows I like cigars so buys them so we can smoke together. I do the same. Next time I go to the cigar shop she wants to come. She says the same thing about fishing...she wants to come to that too. She invited me to a concert with her and her friends next week and she invited herself to one I'm going to in September. I also have planned a birthday party at the beach for my buddy that she's going to as well. When we do go out we only talk to each other. Which makes no sense to me other than she admits I'm entertaining. One of her friends boyfriends told me that I get all of her attention, as far as males are concerned. This has been going on for about 2 months. She gave me her number but we used to have class together so I didn't think it was weird/read into it. The most confusing part is all this happened after I got out of a very short relationship. My friends swear she wants more than friends....I don't exactly believe them since they suck at these things too. Any opinions?
Assasda Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Why don't you just ask her? Dont do this. You should be able to tell. She sounds like she's into you, there are tell tale signs though. Does she touch you? - like playfully hit you or touch your hand Does she try to make prolonged eye contact with you? Does she come in your personal space? If you answered yes to these, she's into you
Author CTS13 Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 Dont do this. You should be able to tell. She sounds like she's into you, there are tell tale signs though. Does she touch you? - like playfully hit you or touch your hand Does she try to make prolonged eye contact with you? Does she come in your personal space? If you answered yes to these, she's into you She does playfully hit and I know she is looking at me when I'm not looking directly at her. You know how you can tell someone is looking at you. She plays with her hair a lot when I'm talking to her but I don't think that works with every girl. The thing is any girl that has ever been interested blew my phone up without me even trying....she doesn't. I'm serious when I say that we don't talk Sunday-Wednesday except via random snap chats to one another. So I compare her to what has happened in the past when a girl has been interested. My buddies swear she is because as they would say why else would she always want to be around when you go out. It's not to hang with them, she doesn't even talk to them. I always say the girl has to show interest big time for me to notice and reciprocate which I wouldn't say she has been showing big time interest. I guess I don't want to interpret just being friends for she's interested.
d0nnivain Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Ask her on a date . . . make it clear that it's a date & outside of your norm.
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