reknown29 Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 I have been listening to some songs to help relieve my pain in a recent breakup. The second one is more for the males out there. Please add to the list. -this one is just very soothing. A good song to let your pain settle in while losing yourself in the nuances of the music. You can cry it out in a good way with this tune. -if you're a male and need to get angry (which helps with depression), I find this is a good song to vent with. -classic song to leave your pain in while never telling anyone you listened to it over and over again. 1
Bigmess2 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Thanks for the song advice. I haven't been able to listen to any music since the break up... My ex was extremely musical and always had a great play list. I know it'll bring back too many memories for me and it makes me sad. Maybe I'll try these.
NoLeafClover Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 How about.. Bit*h please - Dr.dre Ohh or This Ho*s aint loyal U keep listening to sad songs u will be in for a long recovery. Listen to some fun songs and get to indifference sooner 2
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 (edited) "I'm Like A Bird" You're beautiful, that's for sure You'll never ever fade You're lovely but it's not for sure That I won't ever change And though my love is rare Though my love is true [Chorus:] I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away I don't know where my soul is, I don't know where my home is (and baby all I need for you to know is) I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away I don't know where my soul is , I don't know where my home is All I need for you to know is Your faith in me brings me to tears Even after all these years And it pains me so much to tell That you don't know me that well And though my love is rare Though my love is true [Chorus] It's not that I wanna say goodbye It's just that every time you try to tell me that you love me Each and every single day I know I'm going to have to eventually give you away And though my love is rare And though my love is true Hey I'm just scared That we may fall through [Chorus x3] Edited August 14, 2014 by todreaminblue
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 acceptance that you love someone when it breaks up is key you can do all you can to deny the feelings you have its just avoidance and there is no avoidance cant run from what you feel however hard you try so listen to this songs that mean something to work through what you feel and move on through the days until listening to them doesnt really hurt....thats acceptance......love can be bitter sweet so accept that......some times it works out more bitter than sweet sometimes tis the other way around.....deb "White Flag" I know you think that I shouldn't still love you, Or tell you that. But if I didn't say it, well I'd still have felt it where's the sense in that? I promise I'm not trying to make your life harder Or return to where we were I will go down with this ship And I won't put my hands up and surrender There will be no white flag above my door I'm in love and always will be I know I left too much mess and destruction to come back again And I caused nothing but trouble I understand if you can't talk to me again And if you live by the rules of "it's over" then I'm sure that that makes sense I will go down with this ship And I won't put my hands up and surrender There will be no white flag above my door I'm in love and always will be And when we meet Which I'm sure we will All that was there Will be there still I'll let it pass And hold my tongue And you will think That I've moved on.... I will go down with this ship And I won't put my hands up and surrender There will be no white flag above my door I'm in love and always will be I will go down with this ship And I won't put my hands up and surrender There will be no white flag above my door I'm in love and always will be I will go down with this ship And I won't put my hands up and surrender There will be no white flag above my door I'm in love and always will be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pwT2wiZsg0
Requiem4Dreams Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Two songs that I keep playing over and over are: "I'll be ok" by Nothing more "Whole world is watching" by Within temptation Very good songs, give em a whirl. 1
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 this is uplifting I am unwritten, can't read my mind, I'm undefined I'm just beginning, the pen's in my hand, ending unplanned Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten Oh, oh, oh I break tradition, sometimes my tries, are outside the lines We've been conditioned to not make mistakes, but I can't live that way Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten The rest is still unwritten The rest is still unwritten Oh, yeah, yeah the back beat ....close your eyes and listen groove along do the dougie.....woot woot...affirmation..yep im in love he hates me so what...what can i do..nothing but live and enjoy the life i was given..deb
todreaminblue Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 I got a pocket, got a pocket full of sunshine I've got a love and I know that it's all mine oh.oh,oh Do what you want, but you're never gonna break me, sticks and stones are never gonna shake me oh,oh,oh [Chorus] Take me away (take me away) A secret place (a secret place) A sweet escape (a sweet escape) Take me away (take me away) Take me away (take me away To better days (to better days) Take me away (take me away) A hiding place (a hiding place) [interlude] I got pocket, Got a pocket full of sunshine I've got a love and I know that it's all mine oh,oh,oh Wish that you could, but you ain't gonna own me do anything you can to control me oh,oh,oh [Chorus] [Hook] There's a place that I go That nobody knows Where the rivers flow And I call it home And there's no more lies And the darkness is light And nobody cries there's only butterflies [Chorus 2x] [Chorus & Interlude] The sun is on my side Take me for a ride I smile up to the sky I know I'll be alright The sun is on my side Take me for a ride I smile up to the sky I know I'll be alright
sly_fly1 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 well i had a hard time listening to any music when my ex broke up with me. all the RNB n RAP HIP HOP or anything rock n stuff on the radio, all made me up set. the ones that did work i found were all the origional korn songs, system of a down. that genre. 1
Natsu21 Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 "I'm Like A Bird" You're beautiful, that's for sure You'll never ever fade You're lovely but it's not for sure That I won't ever change And though my love is rare Though my love is true [Chorus:] I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away I don't know where my soul is, I don't know where my home is (and baby all I need for you to know is) I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away I don't know where my soul is , I don't know where my home is All I need for you to know is Your faith in me brings me to tears Even after all these years And it pains me so much to tell That you don't know me that well And though my love is rare Though my love is true [Chorus] It's not that I wanna say goodbye It's just that every time you try to tell me that you love me Each and every single day I know I'm going to have to eventually give you away And though my love is rare And though my love is true Hey I'm just scared That we may fall through [Chorus x3] I love this song. Nelly Furtado "Like a Bird" since you're gonna make a suggestion, I think this song is more appropriate for this
newmoon Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 i just put I Will Survive on massive repeat for months. works like a charm!
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