1maginedragons Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Last week I got matched with a guy on Tinder. He was really attractive and sounded like the type of guy I might be interested in. We swapped a couple of messages and he told me that he had people over at his house, and he was sad because everyone had someone else... So I offered to go on a date. He agreed but said he was busy the next week (now this week) because he's just moved to a different city last Sunday. And I told him to let me know whenever he's free... Haven't heard from him since. Do I have anything to worry about? I thought he'd maybe squeeze time to talk to me at least but I don't know. Maybe I'm just being silly. Thanks to anyone who answers. I'd really appreciate it.
jjtr Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Not all to familiar with Tinder, but don't most people use that site simply to hook up? I also don't think it's rational for you to worry. It sounds like you've just exchanged a couple of messages. What is there to worry about if you're never spoken to, let alone met, this guy? 1
Assasda Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 Yeh, so if he doesnt call, He doesnt call. Dont hold your breath
Sweetnothing Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 If a guy is interested, you'll know. If you have to ask a question like that you probably already know the answer. I'd say next time wait for the guy to ask you out first. Men are very fickle and want a girl they have to work for. When you ask a guy out, it lowers his interest. I hate to say it being that this is 2014 and women should have every right to ignore gender roles, but it just doesn't work like that. Most younger guys are not seeking a relationship. They want to chase after girls and if the right one comes along they might settle down after a while, but until then you gotta play the game. This doesn't mean you have to ignore calls and play hard to get, but just sit back and let a guy pursue you.
Assasda Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 If a guy is interested, you'll know. If you have to ask a question like that you probably already know the answer. I'd say next time wait for the guy to ask you out first. Men are very fickle and want a girl they have to work for. When you ask a guy out, it lowers his interest. I hate to say it being that this is 2014 and women should have every right to ignore gender roles, but it just doesn't work like that. Most younger guys are not seeking a relationship. They want to chase after girls and if the right one comes along they might settle down after a while, but until then you gotta play the game. This doesn't mean you have to ignore calls and play hard to get, but just sit back and let a guy pursue you. Naa, Thats just about wrong
OwMyEyeball Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 You're putting some very unrealistic expectation on online dating/messaging. Especially with an app like Tinder. Online dating just takes the numbers game of dating and expands it 100 fold. On the one hand it's great that you have more options. On other hand it's difficult because you have so many options. There's absolutely nothing to read into the messaging side. It's a pointless exercise. You don't even know if the person on the other end is even the person (or just picture) they claim to be. It's just one more filter in the screening process.
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