liono Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 Some of what I'm saying here is background from another topic. There is this girl I like that goes to my church. Okay, she goes to college where I graduated from. So one Sunday I saw her at church and we had a great conversation with lots of laughter. At the end of the talk I got her number. Not knowing what to do next, I contemplated when to call her. I finally got enough courage to call Wednesday. I was kind of anxious to see how she would respond. The conversation went well but my cell phone had static. I told her I would call back and that if she wanted she could call me. I don't know if that was a mistake or not. But two weeks went by and I called her on a Monday. Again the conversation was great and we laughed. Know I'm stranded I don't know how to further the relationship. I like this girl and I don't want to blow it. I want to keep her as a friend because down the road who knows what will happen. How can I progress this into- she calls me sometimes too. I get the feeling she doesn't mind me calling but I want her to call me. I guess that's selfish but how do you feel about my situation?
Pocky Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 Originally posted by liono How can I progress this into- she calls me sometimes too. I get the feeling she doesn't mind me calling but I want her to call me. I guess that's selfish but how do you feel about my situation? I'm confused about your situation. What is the problem?
Naive Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 Well if she calls once in a while, what is the problem???
Author liono Posted February 27, 2005 Author Posted February 27, 2005 Im not real experienced in relationships. I just want to get over the initial anxiety of when to call her and how to approach the relationship. This is a girl I've know for sometime but just recently got her number. I like her and would ask her out but she goes to school 3 hrs away. I want to get to know her better but I guess I'm too impatient.
Author liono Posted February 27, 2005 Author Posted February 27, 2005 She has never called me. But we've only talked on the phone twice.
seahorse Posted February 27, 2005 Posted February 27, 2005 If someone seemed interested in me, had a really nice phone conversation with me, then waited two whole weeks before he rang again, I'd be a little confused. Maybe she's an oldfashioned girl and thinks the man should make the running, and that is why she hasn't phoned you. With those sorts of time gaps between contacts, you are hardly showing as being as impatient to get to know her as you say you are. Phone her - ask her out on a date. I know three hours distance is a way to go, but if you really are interested - make the effort. If she says no, then you'll know where you stand. Good luck.
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