ex-cat Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Hi all; First of all i must say sorry for my English. After broke-up i gave lots of money to a consultant. She advised me NC. But during that NC period i saw him(because we work at the same office) When i saw him i said hi with nice smile. Sometimes chatting. I mean i didn't do NC precisely but he begun to chase me, and one day he texted me "goodmorning. you got dirt on your pants" (it was a very rainy day ) My consultant's back-text advice was like bitch mouth. But i wrote it anyway. After that message ex blocked me from facebook and never text back i gave up taking advice from consultant and texted my ex sorry message. And we begun to chat again but never and ever unblock me from fb. One day he said he want to come to home for see me. Of course i didnt accept and said order me a coffee. But he'd insist for 2 weeks and down my guard. He came to my home last week and we talked. He said that he had no time for a relation. But that day we got fun so much, and...sex Yes,that was a huge mistake. Any idea NC rule works such a kind of situation? (btw i dont see him office anymore. He is working for another department) Still i want him back. Is there any advice of yours
Author ex-cat Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 That is not NC that is partial exploitation. yes Reels it seems so but first 4months we were really good couple. i tried to gain him with NC rule but not succeed because we saw each other many times in office. Now i want to try NC rule exactly. But, you know separation makes minds a little bit fuzzy, i cant think clearly. So i want to learn your thoughts about is there any possibilities from this kind of relation to serious relation by applying real NC rule?
Reels Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 When you think of NC, you should think of permanent ban on any kind of interaction. It includes the mention of the person as well. That's the only way to go. 2
Author ex-cat Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 Thanks Reels, except mentioning i've begin to NC rule for a week. From now on i wont mention him anymore.
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