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Hi,

Quick background story the guy I'm currently dated we dated for a short time about 7 years ago but we were both busy and parted on good terms. This January we got back in contact and decided to try dating again. Things were going well we were seeing each other every other weekend since he has his kids every other weekend. Then it started with him making plans with me and not showing up not contacting me at all letting me know what was going on. I would ask and he would get mad for me asking what happen.

Things got better for a short time then he wouldn't talk to me for a few days then make plans and stand me up again there would be a month I don't see him the. After I see him it was a month and a half then I see him then again 2 months then you guess it I see him and now it's going on 3 and half months since I've seen him. During these gaps he would make plans and promise he was coming then he wouldn't show up or contact me to let me know he couldn't make it etc

Now when I bring this up to him he says it very normal reltionship that I'm over reacting and told me to stop fighting him on it.

 

I've talked to my friends they think I'm nuts to deal with all this and that is not normal they don't understand why I haven't left at this point I don't know why I haven't left either

 

So the question I have is this normal behaviour ?

Posted

Hah you are not the only one he is dating.

 

He is secretive, gets angry, doesn't call, you figure it out.

Posted

So he gives you no excuses?

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