Author bobjon Posted August 19, 2014 Author Posted August 19, 2014 Agreed! I am really trying to look beyond the bed time. At this stage, I do have concern that I would have issues losing her but I firmly believe she would be the same with me. As I told her, she seems to be taking my walls down faster than I can build them so very difficult to keep any distance. I admitted my nerves a bit with her. She is all over it. What is strange is she senses when there is some nerves, she just sneaks in a kisses me.... nerves gone! I know my confidence is stronger with her. Sort of like rolling a Ferrari. You stand taller. Polar opposite of my ex. She wants to know what I am thinking and very open about ANYTHING! Hell, I could ask her about her last proctal exam and we could talk about that. Already covered all our previous relationships, failures, etc. She is a glamour girl as we call it. She likes to get all nice when out. I expected to have to tear into that and get her chilled out around me. NOPE! Went out Sun and she was dress down and laid back! I was honestly so happy with that! She admitted that she cannot be glam girl all the time. She was testing me, she did not even know I get more invested when dressed down, not dressed up and on the town.
smackie9 Posted August 19, 2014 Posted August 19, 2014 Say what?? Testing you? Why do people make getting to know one another so complicated...it's no wonder people get confused, mixed signals, etc.
Author bobjon Posted August 19, 2014 Author Posted August 19, 2014 (edited) Smackie, she did NOT say that! I only felt it was a test. I think a lot of men get attracted to women when they are dressed to the 9s only to not be as excited to see them in their Sunday jammies. I honestly don't feel like she is doing much more than just being her self which is quite a turn on!! I know all the chat online about what to say and not to say but with this one, I just don't feel we have barriers. I flat out told her I have met a LOT of really attractive women but I am just an odd ball of a guy that needs a whole lot more to make it work. I found her attractive the first time I saw her but it was not until she took my hand and looked into my eyes and looked right through me that got me hooked. When I was at her place, I was wearing shades in the house because my eyes were hurting from our night out. She took them off because she wants to look into my eyes. Probably doesn't hurt that when she is attached to me, I get the "you lucky prick" from every guy in the room. That will boost your confidence level!! Also does not hurt that I could literally bounce a quarter off that azz!!! Girl is tuned up! Sappy, I know..... All I can say is I have not felt this since I was 16yo and a little giddy to see where it goes. She is not bashful in sharing her feelings about all this. Seems this feeling is VERY mutual. It is actually quite interesting how this played out. I met her, we were both addicted physically but she wanted to get to know me first and see if everything else would line up. A whole month of not seeing her so when we finally got back together, it was a much stronger experience. I knew once we got back together, that would likely be the deal breaker/maker. She gets goose bumps and sweats when I touch her! Hard to fake that! Edited August 19, 2014 by bobjon
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