jessicachoi Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 (edited) This is a thing which I have noticed, especially with OLD.... It seems like some guys tend to think all we women want to see is abs and their penis. Apparently their way to attract females, or turn them on, is by example.. the shirtless photos on datingsites (but can be spotted anywhere) And I am not even speaking about the amounts of penis photos I - but also my friends- recieve! And for some reason they think I will enjoy it when they talk about their penis & brag about size... My point is... am I just weird for not caring that much about abs/penis photos or is it guys assuming they will attract me like that? I dont think it is sexy at all... nor makes me interested in a sexual way! And guys never believe it when I say confidence is sexy, power is, even being welldressed is...why do guys try to attract me like that? I have been called a lesbian before for not being interessted in shirtless photos... come on, nude doesnt mean it can (sexual) attract me.. Edited August 13, 2014 by jessicachoi 1
me85 Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 No, you've got a great point. I agree. When a guy does that it's not so much a turn on to me either. More like, he's either full of himself or very insecure.
TheyCallMeOx Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Those are the type of guys obviously just lookin' for a hookup. No guy, in his right mind, would look for a romantic relationship and think "well maybe if I show her my dick, she'll be interested in me romantically!" There's a lot more to romance than dick size and abs. In fact, those things have very little to do with actual romance. It's unfortunate that so many men look to dating services as methods to getting laid, but you're going to have to not pay them any attention. There's authentic guys out there who want a romantic relationship, but it may take a little bit of bad skittles to get to the good ones. 2
preraph Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Men think that because what they care about most is boobs and body, that women do too and just won't admit it. They're wrong. Sending photos of penises is a gross thing to do and women don't want to see it or think it's at all attractive. Girls aren't picking men based only on their muscles the way guys pick women for boobs. A lot of girls don't even like big huge muscley guys and think they look ridiculous. A few like them but not as many as who don't. Most women I've known like an average to tall guy with thin to average build and toned, but not bulging muscles. Men who send you penis photos should be blocked right away. All they want is online sex. They're disgusting. If I think even of all the men I've really loved and cared about, if one of them had sent me a penis photo, I'd have probably had a big fight with them about why they thought that was alright and given them a reality check. 1
me85 Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 Those are the type of guys obviously just lookin' for a hookup. No guy, in his right mind, would look for a romantic relationship and think "well maybe if I show her my dick, she'll be interested in me romantically!" There's a lot more to romance than dick size and abs. In fact, those things have very little to do with actual romance. It's unfortunate that so many men look to dating services as methods to getting laid, but you're going to have to not pay them any attention. There's authentic guys out there who want a romantic relationship, but it may take a little bit of bad skittles to get to the good ones. Love this post but there's no such thing as a bad skittle. Taste the rainbow Ox! lol Btw, I also love your signature.
bene Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 I can't think of a situation where an unsolicited penis photo would be appreciated or appropriate. I have not received any myself but it amazes me that people actually do that. Seriously, even if you want to hook up, you don't whip out your penis in a bar or on the street (right?), so why do this online?
Scales Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 I see a lot of "men think" in here. It's actually "men know". Want to know why men send pictures of their penis to women? Because at one time or another, it worked. They then make the mistake of thinking that all women respond to it like that + some I don't care attitude = online confidence. Guys sending their penis in a photo is sometimes a form of online confidence. A lot of guys won't do it. It also escalates the situation quickly. If you're interested and sexually available, he will know right away. Search in the middle between the washboard ab penis cowboys and the shy low confidence shut it hermit and you'll probably come up with some decent guys.
HappyLove Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 All this tells me is that you are on some sketchy sites and should get off them! 1
Imported Posted August 13, 2014 Posted August 13, 2014 I see a lot of "men think" in here. It's actually "men know". Want to know why men send pictures of their penis to women? Because at one time or another, it worked. They then make the mistake of thinking that all women respond to it like that It is not a mistake. It's just part of the process. If the girl is not interested, she doesn't bother you. I don't see a problem here. I don't do such things, but a couple friends whom are very well endowed do. It works. A lot of women are cock gazers, I know this from my own experience.
preraph Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 A lot of women are cock gazers, I know this from my own experience. A lot more of them are sitting around laughing at it or telling all their little friends how gross it is, trust me.
WesternWizard Posted August 14, 2014 Posted August 14, 2014 IMO any guy who sends/posts pics of his John Thomas, is probably a neanderthal, and he should be looking for a nymphomaniac. It goes without saying, I would NEVER post/send pics of my John Thomas to ANYONE. BTW I don't understand why some men feel the need to post pics of themselves with a big s-eating grin and holding up a fish they caught. Maybe it's some kind of "provider" kick, but if I was going to post pics of myself with fish, it would be of cooked fish nicely arranged on a plate. Seriously, brothers, don't be crass... show some class. 2
Omei Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Oh I so get this it never works on me ither im someone looking for a passionate relationship as soon as a guy suggests sending a dick pic or anything like that from me or talks about sexual things too often I go NEXT!!! Unfortunately there seems to be a bigger pool of this type of man than a gentlemen =[
Omei Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 A lot more of them are sitting around laughing at it or telling all their little friends how gross it is, trust me. Hahaha indeed I know I tell my friend everytime this happens to me and we giggle at how creepy these men are.
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