Author GTO06 Posted August 14, 2014 Author Posted August 14, 2014 Wow, thanks for all the awesome advice guys! OwMyEyeball, it sounds like we are a lot alike. I have been living a whole different life style this year thanks to my forced changed mind set. I just decided one day about a year ago to change my incredibly stubborn and over analytical thinking to a "anything goes" mind set. I have been open to so much more since the change and it has been great so far. I just need to take it to the next level and get more deeply involved with people it seems. I think I'm just going to do some more dating and try to have fun more and not think about the sex part so much. I guess it isn't the end of the world if I hit 30 still a virgin. I've had about 6 dates this summer so far and I'm just going to keep at it as see where it leads. Who knows, maybe it will happen in the next 2 months I got left before I hit 30 anyways Thanks a bunch guys, you have really helped put my mind at ease on this!
lionheart153 Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Wow, thanks for all the awesome advice guys! OwMyEyeball, it sounds like we are a lot alike. I have been living a whole different life style this year thanks to my forced changed mind set. I just decided one day about a year ago to change my incredibly stubborn and over analytical thinking to a "anything goes" mind set. I have been open to so much more since the change and it has been great so far. I just need to take it to the next level and get more deeply involved with people it seems. I think I'm just going to do some more dating and try to have fun more and not think about the sex part so much. I guess it isn't the end of the world if I hit 30 still a virgin. I've had about 6 dates this summer so far and I'm just going to keep at it as see where it leads. Who knows, maybe it will happen in the next 2 months I got left before I hit 30 anyways Thanks a bunch guys, you have really helped put my mind at ease on this! I heard Ke$ha likes older virgins. maybe go find her.
slizl Posted August 15, 2014 Posted August 15, 2014 Walk up to a group of girls and start convo. Try to encorporate everyone in the conversation and focus on the one that is the most interested in what you are saying. Easy peezy. The hard part is getting that girl to go home with you because the friends will inevitably try to cock block at the end of the night.
normal person Posted August 16, 2014 Posted August 16, 2014 Well, I have been to a LOT of bars over the last year and I've never seen any of these so called women that go to bars to find a guy to hookup with. In fact, I have never even seen a woman sitting on their own at all at a bar! Most women I see at bars came in with their SO or are in a bunch of women together off on their own. I mean seriously, what are we single guys supposed to do with that? I'd be very surprised if anyone else said they've never hooked up with someone they met at a bar. Very few women (and not a ton of men, I can imagine) go to the bar by themselves. Here's what you do: Next Friday night round up all your friends and go for a fun night out at whatever bar in your area is most conducive to this sort of thing. Not necessarily the campus bar but somewhere with some youthful energy. Dress decently but don't overdo it. Then, with all your friends, have a visible amount of fun. Tell jokes, laugh, smile, and make sure your friends are doing the same. Enjoy yourselves. If you're seemingly funny, interesting, and charming enough, those groups of girls there will notice and want you to talk to them. They're looking to have fun, an experience, and you can possibly provide it. Start talking to them circumstantially so your whole motive isn't so obvious. Then get a little more friendly, see if they want to play a drinking game, whatever. Have fun. Everyone's happy. You won't be so surprised with what happens next.
enternetic Posted August 16, 2014 Posted August 16, 2014 Here is a idea outside of bars, it has worked for me. Find a business that you can frequent a lot. McDonalds is ok, a clothing store is best. Find one that has at least two girls you could be interested in. No bartenders or waitresses, they get hit on a lot. It cannot be just one girl, you will look like a stalker. Multiple girls will make you look like a cool confident guy. Go in enough so they recognize you, and flirt like the devil every time with more than one girl if you can. Eventually introduce something about yourself that may interest one or more of them. If you get a positive response don't hesitate, ask her to join. When dating always make all the plans and decisions and have a "spontaneous" change of plans from time to time or in case of a problem. A walk in the park just as the sprinklers come on is a good one. (Turn it into a fun thing instead of a disaster, women take their mood from yours). Never ask her what she wants to do, always take the lead and be entertaining. Remember girls just want to have fun! If you are the guy she always has fun with and whom makes her laugh, she will sleep with you. But you must start with romantic intention from the first date. Many guys wait too long and end up as friends.
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