BroknHrt Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 Last Thursday I met her at a bar downtown and we had a great time together. We were there for 3 and a half hours and I really enjoyed being with her. I call her Friday and ask her to the movies sunday. She agrees and we went to see TMNT on sunday night. This date was not as good as the first one. It went okay, but she would bring up her ex-boyfriend and it made things awkward at times. The date ended with me walking her back towards her apartment, giving her a hug and kissing her on the cheek. I definitely know we both felt less comfortable during this date than the last one. Nevertheless, I sent her a text around 12 PM last night saying, "Hey ____, I hope you had a good day today. Just wanted to wish you good night and I hope I get to see you again soon. Sleep tight :)" I have yet to get a response back from her. I am not really sure what her interest level in me is, but I can obviously tell this is a bad sign when a girl doesn't respond back. So, what would by next step be? How do I get that third date?
molimo140 Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 Come up with a plan for the third date, then call her up, say you had a great time, and ask her to do ____ (xyz thing you thought of). Good luck!
Author BroknHrt Posted August 12, 2014 Author Posted August 12, 2014 Even though she hasn't responded to my text?
slizl Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 Drinks at a bar > TMNT movies for sure. Movies are a ****ty date in the first place (you can't talk), not to mention going to the f-ing ninja turtles. Anyway, one more text from you and if she doesn't respond, go NC. 3
molimo140 Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 Even though she hasn't responded to my text? Yes. If you want to go out with her, then that's what you need to do. Show some confidence and call her up.
TXGuy Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 In the future, I would avoid texting a girl after 10pm until you get to know her better. Your text didn't have any bad content, but many women assume any communication after midnight is some attempt at a booty call (I know that was not the case with you). As others have said. Give it one more try with a set date plan and see how it goes. 1
Author BroknHrt Posted August 12, 2014 Author Posted August 12, 2014 I let her pick the movie which is why TMNT was chosen. I'll give her a call tomorrow night or Thursday and I'll be inviting her to Jerry World on Saturday night. Thanks for the advice everyone.
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