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Being the other guy....a little support...


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Long time since my first post and ashamed to say it has taken me six years to stop being "the other guy" and to say it's time to stop and realize she won't leave anytime soon.

Although I know we didn't have a relationship as such, why do I feel like one has finished. Thought it was definitely the right thing to do before, now feel like there's a massive hole and I've lost someone I shared a lot with over 8 years. Bit of a ramble and do with some positive encouragement i did the right thing

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well good thing is you now know it's time to cut the cord and move forward with your life - good luck and keep us posted

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Thanks man. I know I did the right thing. Just feel a lot ****ter than I thought I would.

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Of course you feel there is a hole. You invested yourself in someone who didn't give you the same. I believe in second chances for ourselves, so stop living in the past and look forward knowing you did the right thing by not being with a taken person. Sometimes the universe does for us what we don't do for ourselves. Time to count your blessings and move forward with your eyes on a relationship with someone healthy who is just as invested in you.

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Thanks for that. Sounds silly now but I wasn't expecting to feel any different but actually feel v. upset. What you said makes sense.

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