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ok her last text was: "Hellllo, still super swollen and super painful"

and what did you do?

you called her. :rolleyes:

 

why the hell you called her if she told you her mouth was super swollen and super painful? how do you think she could talk to you?

 

oh man you should just leave the ball in her court when you texted her about the extraction.. I am sure she would go back to you at some point.. maybe when she was feeling less rubbish? everybody on earth know that toothache is the worse! she was probably high on painkillers ( joke ) and not in the very right mood to have a conversation what do you think?

 

 

Ya. I shouldn't have called. I did everything I could though.

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Ya. I shouldn't have called. I did everything I could though.

 

 

Why not!? You have closure now. I don't see why a person who gets their wisdom teeth pulled can't talk for two days. She just wasn't interested for whatever reason.

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Why not!? You have closure now. I don't see why a person who gets their wisdom teeth pulled can't talk for two days. She just wasn't interested for whatever reason.

 

True. She totally could have talked. She just wouldn't know what to say/doesn't want to be put on the spot. I don't know why it's so hard for chicks to just say their not interested. Especially when a guy is reaching out. Lacks so much integrity. What goes around comes around though.

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Why not!? You have closure now. I don't see why a person who gets their wisdom teeth pulled can't talk for two days. She just wasn't interested for whatever reason.

 

I was thinking the same thing. I got my wisdom teeth pulled and was back at work the following morning. I could have went back that same night.

 

The calls and the texts did not break this thing. If you focus on anything, focus on the fact that she didn't call or respond to you for two days after the date. It was an uphill battle from that point. I can't think of any woman who I showed a nice time in a long time that didn't call or text me the following morning to say she had a nice time or wish me a good day.

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I was thinking the same thing. I got my wisdom teeth pulled and was back at work the following morning. I could have went back that same night.

 

The calls and the texts did not break this thing. If you focus on anything, focus on the fact that she didn't call or respond to you for two days after the date. It was an uphill battle from that point. I can't think of any woman who I showed a nice time in a long time that didn't call or text me the following morning to say she had a nice time or wish me a good day.

 

Totes magotes. But the thing that really gets me, in this situation, are these facts.

 

Not that I'm giving this situation more energy. It's just interesting to diagnose a first date, and signs that make zero sense. This just happens to be a good example.

 

1. She let me massage her for like 15 minutes.

2. She curled up to me on the beach.

3. We Kissed for 10 seconds and she was in to it.

4. She said she really wanted to see me again soon. Then I agreed.

 

 

So, at the end of that date, if this was a movie... You would be like "she totally digs him"... Then all of a sudden... Zippo for newt.

So I think there is something bigger at play that doesn't even involve me. But, in the end it doesn't matter... People here are right. It was one measly date. First dates are just choas because you could have all green lights, then a giant red one for no real reason.

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