Jordvn Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Here's whats going on, dating this girl for about a month. I haven't met any of her family or friends. She never posts any pictures of me even though we spend almost every day together. I posted a comment on one of her pictures and she deletes it immediately. Also she hides all photos she's tagged in. I was once in a relationship where I had to hide, but my ex was straight forward and told me why we had to be secret lovers. IDK if my current GF is hiding me, or there's other guys in the picture I don't know about. I'd appreciate your guys' take on this.
Rockemsockem Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 I wouldn't want to be meeting friends and family one month in... that's too soon for me but that is me. I generally like to take a bit of time before introducing someone I'm seeing to people I know. The reason the start of relationships are so bloody fragile it can suck introducing someone to people you care about then it imploding a few weeks later. Have you talked to her about this at all?
dolceamourr Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 I think one month is too soon to meet family. I don't think it's concerning that you haven't met a friend either. The deleting of a the comment is a little odd though. You should really just ask her why she deleted the comment or mention to her that you're worried about this. I do think you should give it more time as its too soon to know though. 2
Gaeta Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 How old are you 2 ? I would never expect or even want to meet family and friends after 1 month. What was that FB comment she deleted ? It may have been too heavy or cheesy for her.
longjohn Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 A month is very soon to be meeting family and very early on to allow a relative stranger access to post/tag on their facebook. When you say dating is it exclusive between both of you or casual? I can only assume they will eventually have you meet friends/family and are deleting and blocking your posts because they don't want a half dozen people asking who you are right now. If you are casually dating then your lucky you got as far as their facebook. You might want to talk to the woman and remain patient.
smackie9 Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 If you don't get off on how you are being treated then confront her about it. Obviously you are not exclusive yet.....time to have a discussion with her. 1
bubbaganoosh Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 It's one thing to meet her family and being that it's only a month, I don't think it's a biggie but what I don't understand is why she deletes his comments on Face Book. The only thing I can think of is maybe her parents are real strict. That said, how old are the both of you?
deathandtaxes Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 And this is why I don't send FB friend requests to people I have been on a few dates with.... Ask the source. I hope she's honest with you. 1
iveria Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Everything else seems okay/normal, except for the deleting of the FB comment.
Assasda Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Have you met her IRL or is this just some kinda internet stuff?
FitnessRN Posted August 12, 2014 Posted August 12, 2014 Sounds like she is up to no good and using you as a side guy. Return the favor..facebook block her and break up with her in a text message and say in it (after you read my breakup message sweetheart, make sure you delete this too *with a smiley*) Don't take her crap pal...that sounds like she's using you to give her a ego boost...cut her off!
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