If the first date went well, how long would you ask the girl out again?

[allenpo123]

I met a interesting guy online, we met and the date was casual and fun.

Ever since the beginning we chat for 30min min. on on whatsapp daily.

 

However, 3 weeks passed and he hasn't asked me out on a 2nd date.

I've asked if he wanted to go to a concert but he said he'd pass.

 

He already said he wanted to watch a movie with me last August.

But before our late August movie date, he could have asked for coffee or anything..?

 

 

 

Guys, how long would you wait to ask out a girl on a 2nd date?

[J2911]

This is a really tough one here . Some guys might have a different answer/opinion.

If I took a woman out on a date, and the date went very well, and I really felt a strong connection as well as she felt that same connection , then as I walked her to her doorstep , I'd tell her what a wonderful time I had and ask if if I could take her out again at her convenience. I am very old school like that and understood times have changed.

I feel as though since he declined the concert and hasn't asked you out yet again till late August. , he may not be so Interested in you or he has a busy work and prior engagement schedule. I hope this helps ma'am.

[allenpo123]

Thanks for the advice, it really helps...

 

He's been messaging me everyday, but doesn't reply as fast as he was 2 weeks ago. I'm getting a little tired being a text buddy, I don't really need that. And I think the messaging is loosing its spark. Yes, I think he does have a tight schedule, but not that tight he couldn't squeeze out a day if he wanted a date.

 

I think you cleared up the situation for me, I don't think he's that interested. Maybe he was before, but somehow just cooled down. I will move on to the next then...

[d0nnivain]

If he hasn't asked for a 2nd date in 3 weeks you need to assume he won't. Move on.

[MissBee]

I met a interesting guy online, we met and the date was casual and fun.

Ever since the beginning we chat for 30min min. on on whatsapp daily.

 

However, 3 weeks passed and he hasn't asked me out on a 2nd date.

I've asked if he wanted to go to a concert but he said he'd pass.

 

He already said he wanted to watch a movie with me last August.

But before our late August movie date, he could have asked for coffee or anything..?

 

 

 

Guys, how long would you wait to ask out a girl on a 2nd date?

 

This guy doesn't seem to like you much, sorry to say.

 

I can't imagine any man being genuinely into you and excited waiting 3 weeks or when you ask him he passes without any rhyme or reason or follow up about something else. No one does this. He probably agreed to late August because he felt it was far enough away that you would forget or he could get out of it.

 

In all my experiences with all my boyfriends when we went out they either asked for a second date at the end of our date or sometime during we'd make plans to go out again, or after the date they'd text to say they had a good time and want to see me again and say when, or the next day or sometime in the following days not weeks later and certainly if I invited them out they said yes.