Joelopez Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 My Ex girlfriend has texted me that she would like to work things out again, she has texted me,she still cares, loves, and misses me, she also has said she thinks about breaking up with him and getting back with me alot, she twice lied about beign single and I fell for it we had sex she slept over, had more sex then it was just back to the way things were before we were still not together and she was still with her boyfriend. It's a very stupid and weird situation to be in after you find out things haven't changed, I have not told her I miss her and love her etc. I begin to wonder why she is doing this behind her boyfriends back and not when she is single? I do feel bad for kinda helping her cheat without me knowing it at the time. Is she really a cheat and not worth it or does she really miss me and is afraid that I don't feel the same way she does since I don't tell her I miss her etc. I mean i can't tell her those things she has a boyfriend, maybe if she didn't I would of made an effort. If it matters we were together for 5 years but she broke up with me because she felt I wasn't there for her as much, she felt that I didn't love her the same anymore, I don't cheat on her or hit her or was verbally abusive or things like that, about a month after we broke up she got into a new relationship. If anyone can help with advice or have been through a similar situation it would really help.
Ordinaryday Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 My Ex girlfriend has texted me that she would like to work things out again, she has texted me,she still cares, loves, and misses me, she also has said she thinks about breaking up with him and getting back with me alot, she twice lied about beign single and I fell for it we had sex she slept over, had more sex then it was just back to the way things were before we were still not together and she was still with her boyfriend. It's a very stupid and weird situation to be in after you find out things haven't changed, I have not told her I miss her and love her etc. I begin to wonder why she is doing this behind her boyfriends back and not when she is single? I do feel bad for kinda helping her cheat without me knowing it at the time. Is she really a cheat and not worth it or does she really miss me and is afraid that I don't feel the same way she does since I don't tell her I miss her etc. I mean i can't tell her those things she has a boyfriend, maybe if she didn't I would of made an effort. If it matters we were together for 5 years but she broke up with me because she felt I wasn't there for her as much, she felt that I didn't love her the same anymore, I don't cheat on her or hit her or was verbally abusive or things like that, about a month after we broke up she got into a new relationship. If anyone can help with advice or have been through a similar situation it would really help. sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it as well, she wants to know she has you and has her boyfriend as well, and then she can choose, she wants to know you are available for her. right now she is just messing you around and nothing she has said has translated into hard actions. text her once with "I don't go around talking with other people's girlfriends behind the guys back. don't contact me unless you have officially broken up with your boyfriend and want to discuss us getting back together" then ignore everything she sends you unless it is about that. 1
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