raider09 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 ok so i met this girl where i work i added her on social media she accepted my request and even followed me back she liked a few of my pictures. when i saw her the following time i greeted her like usual after she was headed out i decided to ask her out for coffee for following week she said yes and gave me her number. i send her a quick text the following day Monday evening at 8, saying this is **** how's it going. the following day around noon i receive a text "Heyy" "i respond around one how's your day going?" she responds late at 11pm night "very busy and how is your day going?" i respond the following day at noon "good i went out to my first baseball game". i didn't receive a response i let a day pass, i decide to call her to set up the date, however she does not answer and again did not receive a response or call back. she still follows me on facebook. i saw her today i acted casual and didn't mention the date or the phone call as she's leaving she waves goodbye and similes WHAT Should I DO any helpful advice.
Assasda Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Stop texting her needy texts like "Hows it going?" Call her to set up dates. and dont follow her around like a puppy dog 1
Author raider09 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 Stop texting her needy texts like "Hows it going?" Call her to set up dates. and dont follow her around like a puppy dog yes i stopped texting her or calling her. do you think she's playing hard to get?
smackie9 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 She doesn't have the guts to tell you she doesn't want to date you. a girl that chats or follows you on FB means jack sh it. an interested girl would be texting you a lot and would never miss out on the opportunity to be with you...get it? good.
Author raider09 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 She doesn't have the guts to tell you she doesn't want to date you. a girl that chats or follows you on FB means jack sh it. an interested girl would be texting you a lot and would never miss out on the opportunity to be with you...get it? good. i see why would she wave goodbye and smile for?
smackie9 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 (edited) Just being nice. Waving and smiling isn't flirting..... But if she walked away, then turned to look back at you and smiled, then you would have something there. Edited August 10, 2014 by smackie9
smackie9 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 I have said this many times.....just because a girl is nice to you doesn't mean she has a romantic interest in you.
Author raider09 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 Just being nice. Waving and smiling isn't flirting..... But if she walked away, then turned to look back at you and smiled, then you would have something there. so just give it time and keep my options open but dont' expect anything to happen?
Assasda Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 so just give it time and keep my options open but dont' expect anything to happen? You should definately see other women. Try not to be their puppy dog. For some reason I sense that you gave this girl a lot of undue attention and she wasnt reciprocating. It doesnt work like that 1
smackie9 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 so just give it time and keep my options open but dont' expect anything to happen? I'm saying she doesn't like you like that.....you are friend zoned. Stop giving her any attention, but still be kind and reciprocate a wave.
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