kirkd1984 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 So me and my Fiance of six months had a huge row two weeks ago tomorrow. Since then her mum has been round to the house to pick up her belongings but left quite a bit behind (i guess she didn't know what was what) anyway, that was 9 days ago. Since then my Fiance's friend has text on Saturday night to say they'd be over next week to collect her things. Nothing since. She still has my house keys, bank card and the engagement ring. Why is she stalling?! Her mum could easily have text me and been over for the rest by now...
ExpatInItaly Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Why don't you just freakin' call her? I suggested that in your other thread. Why are you stalling? It seems you're hoping to hear that she's stalling because she wants to reconcile, and picking up all her stuff would signal the true end of this relationship- is that it? You can choose to perpetuate this drama and do nothing but wait. Or you can put an immediate end to it and call her. Directly. Your choice. 1
Author kirkd1984 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 I know i'm just scared of her reaction. It feels like its been ages!!!
Mary Oak Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Just put her stuff in a room, close the door and forget about it. It will be there when she is ready. You are just trying to convince yourself she is stalling because she is not sure what she wants. 1
Author kirkd1984 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Thanks for the advice. It is killing me just looking at it.
amaysngrace Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Bring her stuff to her then file a court motion to sue her to get either the ring or the value of the ring back. No more waiting on her. You call the shots. And cancel the card and change your locks. 1
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