myhearthurtsbadly Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Hi All, I've been a member of this site since 2010 when I went through my first real heartbreak. Time goes on and you do recover eventually but here i am again back in the middle of a horrible break up which has knocked me as badly as that of my first love. I foolishly checked her instagram last night to see that she had deleted two pictures of me from a while back where she makes reference to me as her boyfriend and 'baby'. I don't understand why she would do this and she probably has no idea how much it has hurt me. It has set of all sorts of fears in my mind that she is already seeing someone else and she doesn't want them to see anything about me. I've been 5 days no contact and I have to say I am close to calling or messenging her to ask her why she would do that. Please, someone talk me out of it!
Moonborn Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 If you have been through a serious breakup before you know that it's a bad idea. You also know that you will get over it and find a new love. You did it once, you can do it again.
ThorntonMelon Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I've been 5 days no contact and I have to say I am close to calling or messenging her to ask her why she would do that. You know why she'd do that. Because she broke up with you. I'm not going to try and convince you everything will be OK, because emotionally right now you're not capable of processing that. But understand 1) you're insane right now, whatever your brain thinks is the right thing to do is most likely wrong and 2) You're not going to be able to read her mind or her actions; focus on yourself and your needs and your self-care and realize you're the prize, she's a fool, and someday she will realize that. Past that go easy on yourself.
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