Orije Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Hello, me and my girlfriend have only been together for about 3 months now. She is 18 and I am 19. The relationship was great and she said I've made her so happy and made her feel loved, but today I got the call that since she will be starting her first year of college soon that she will break up with me. She said her mom talked to her and told her to pay attention to her school work and not be committed into a relationship. Her college is 45 minutes away. I tried making sense and make it so things work out, but she said if she meets someone new or goes to a party and sleeps with them that she doesn't want to tell me and hurt me. She decided it would be best if we became friends and got to know each other better since we didn't begin as friends and that she likes me alot. I told her I will be thinking about her and if she does want to commit to someone else, to let me know so I can move on. My family and a few friends said I can try to be friends and hope something does happen in later time, but its best to forget about her and move on. Its really hard to think about and do, but what is your idea on this or what can I do to help myself? Stay friends or move on?
leavesonautumn Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Move on. Don't be friends with her either. You might be able to be friends one day but in the meantime, you're just going to wait for her while other people who'd love to date you will pass on by. She basically told you that she's open to meeting new people. That's not fair to you. You're 19, don't waste your time on someone who is not worth it and become bitter towards dating in general. 1
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