argie Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 awI have been working with someone with whom I have fallen in love for the past year. I know he finds me attractive, but I tend to be very careful when it comes to relationships. He's much younger, but strong, kind and responsible...something hard to find in a man. We have had a drunken night where we kissed...all very innocent. He told me he loved me and I responded the same. Figured he was just trying to get in my pants, so I blew him off. And he ended up taking someone else home. After that, things between us weren't the same. He pursued me and I completely ignored him...couldn't even bring myself to do eye contact with him. Later on, at a gathering, he came up to me and asked me why I hated him. I responded saying that I couldn't hate him if I tried. I also mentioned that what scared me was what was said and not what happened between us. Now...4 months later, we can't keep eyes off each other. He gives me the sheepish look and we have some awkward moments. There was an instance where a song was playing and he said...tell me you love me...and I completely froze. All I could get out was a retarded hugh? I would like to know what your opinion is...I seem to involved in this situation to make a clear judgement on it...thanks
preraph Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 He doesn't love you or he wouldn't have taken someone else home right in front of you. I think he would love to get in your pants, more like.
still_an_Angel Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 He likes you, but I wouldn't believe that ILY on the drunken night.
Author argie Posted August 10, 2014 Author Posted August 10, 2014 True...and I think better of myself for telling him I wasn't going home with him after he asked.
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